Why not? You have settled for something made up by others. Which is better?
Of course, I would say mine is
and you would argue yours. Let's not reduce it to that, instead, can we try and understand the "why" from each other? That would be more fruitful.
It isn't particularly whimsical, Mohsen, as my personal sense of morality has grown over many decades. I do not see theists as being particularly moral human animals. They make lots of noise about it but in the end they aren't any better than others. I guess the proof of the pudding is in my interactions with other human animals.
Your sense of morality has grown over several decades, just like anyone elses - the teachings regarding these come from where though? society? experience? loss? altruism? empathy? philanthropy? each has a certain leaning, but all would be found in the teachings of Islam from my personal study. Which is why I find Islam to be suited to the thinking person. Not that I'm saying you don't think, mind. It's just that is what I believe - we all have a path to follow, you're following yours and I'm following mine.
In fact - in the Surah of the Qur'an titled "the Unbelievers" the final verse is quite amicable - "to you be your way, and to me be my way" -
lakum deenukum waleeyadeen - transliteration of the Arabic.
I have a relatively problem free existence so I figure I must be doing something right. The difference of creating my own path is that I didn't need a book to point things out for me. I'm fairly mindful of how my actions affect others and have had the good sense to understand and learn from my mistakes. Failure is your friend, not your enemy.
When you write "I didn't need a book to point it out for me" it does sound a little derogatory. Not everyone is a born scientific expert either, it's books which help us understand that which we study. I love the Qur'an for many reasons, it's more than a book to me, and millions of others - and this thread would be taken well off topic if I were to go into that here. Instead, I'd like to finish this post with an agreement. I agree that failure is oft misunderstood, those who fear it often accomplish very little.
time for bed, for the second time lol
peace
EDIT:
@Shadow Wolf - I read your post, but I really need to sleep, I hope to catch up with this thread in the week, God willing, and reply to you then,
peace