I have one sibling, a sister, age 66, I'm 68.
We had a horrible childhood, father an ragaholic alcoholic, mother a psychotic closet alky that hid
her behavior behind by fathers bad behavor. A common human behavior in dysfunction.
Mother beat us awful, taught us as little kids to shoplift from stores and when caught by store clerks she'd beat us saying" I told you stealing was wrong". Confusing huh?
She was a J.W. and when we got old enough to balk about going to church she scared us with Jehovah saying he would send birds to pluck our eyes out and make us blind.
Wow. I didn't like that god very much, was in fact terrified.
We grew up and had kids and treated them as badly as we were treated, not knowing how badly trained we were.
Dad died, mom remarried a realy nice man 20 year here senior. Poor bastage, she drove him into his grave, inherited 83 grand. I had that put in the market and parlayed it into a quarter mill.
Sis learned of moms bucks, and got real good a forging her will which I requested be a 50/50 spilt of all chattels.Sis forged it leaving all to her.
Mom died, I was not notified, I heard via a cousin in time for the funeral and learned Sis BANNED me from attending. Wow.
She hated my guts because I quite drinking, become something, made amends to my poor children.
It was 10 years ago mom died. I never saw mom for the last 15 years of her life, she had a stroke and became a carrot needed 24/7 care and Sis hid her in a nursing home to deny me a visit.
I tried many, many, times to contact mom & Sis but every attempted was blocked.
Well a month ago I, by chance, drove on the raod where mom lived. Sis has that house and lives in it.
Some voice said "stop, go to the door, if she answers just hug her and tell her you love her.
I did!
She answered, looked as tho she saw a ghost, great fear in her eyes, she knows she treated me awful, cheated me out of tons of bucks.
I hugged her, gave her a kiss. She was shocked, invited me in and we talked for hours on end.
I never brought up what she did to me, how hurt I was, not a word.
Her husband is so sick he must wear oxygene, can't walk arcross the room w/o it.
She looked horrible, she's sick too. They are out of money, the nursing homes go it all.
They scrape by on social security disablity which ain't much.
I have over 100 grand in investments, live on $4500 a month tax free, get gas royalites next year.
I fell good I stopped by, healed at least some of her evil I think.
Perhaps I'll give her...............................................NO! I ain't giving her any money.
I'm forgiving, not stupid.
We had a horrible childhood, father an ragaholic alcoholic, mother a psychotic closet alky that hid
her behavior behind by fathers bad behavor. A common human behavior in dysfunction.
Mother beat us awful, taught us as little kids to shoplift from stores and when caught by store clerks she'd beat us saying" I told you stealing was wrong". Confusing huh?
She was a J.W. and when we got old enough to balk about going to church she scared us with Jehovah saying he would send birds to pluck our eyes out and make us blind.
Wow. I didn't like that god very much, was in fact terrified.
We grew up and had kids and treated them as badly as we were treated, not knowing how badly trained we were.
Dad died, mom remarried a realy nice man 20 year here senior. Poor bastage, she drove him into his grave, inherited 83 grand. I had that put in the market and parlayed it into a quarter mill.
Sis learned of moms bucks, and got real good a forging her will which I requested be a 50/50 spilt of all chattels.Sis forged it leaving all to her.
Mom died, I was not notified, I heard via a cousin in time for the funeral and learned Sis BANNED me from attending. Wow.
She hated my guts because I quite drinking, become something, made amends to my poor children.
It was 10 years ago mom died. I never saw mom for the last 15 years of her life, she had a stroke and became a carrot needed 24/7 care and Sis hid her in a nursing home to deny me a visit.
I tried many, many, times to contact mom & Sis but every attempted was blocked.
Well a month ago I, by chance, drove on the raod where mom lived. Sis has that house and lives in it.
Some voice said "stop, go to the door, if she answers just hug her and tell her you love her.
I did!
She answered, looked as tho she saw a ghost, great fear in her eyes, she knows she treated me awful, cheated me out of tons of bucks.
I hugged her, gave her a kiss. She was shocked, invited me in and we talked for hours on end.
I never brought up what she did to me, how hurt I was, not a word.
Her husband is so sick he must wear oxygene, can't walk arcross the room w/o it.
She looked horrible, she's sick too. They are out of money, the nursing homes go it all.
They scrape by on social security disablity which ain't much.
I have over 100 grand in investments, live on $4500 a month tax free, get gas royalites next year.
I fell good I stopped by, healed at least some of her evil I think.
Perhaps I'll give her...............................................NO! I ain't giving her any money.
I'm forgiving, not stupid.
