Caladan
Agnostic Pantheist
In general I would say that the women in my job on average (just a rough impression after working there for a year and a half) are as assertive as the guys and often more assertive, and also often promoted into managing positions based on their skills of efficiency. Skills which often mean putting loud mouthed contractors in their place and telling men when and where they can build what. In addition my last two excavation directors were women, the last one is perhaps one of the most respected archaeologist I've worked with not only on the scholarly level, but over a 150 Middle Eastern men and women who were working in her dig treated her like the Sultan. She commands both authority and genuine appreciation from them. I think that women in my company in general would not take crap, although there are definitely also problems on the inspection work level when Middle Eastern construction workers harass junior female workers while they would never think about doing the same to a male worker during routine inspection work.
This week for example was a very nice one for me, I had a routine inspection in a road expansion where me and the workers got along very good, joked around, and they had me making them tea and coffee every day sometimes on hourly basis. No issues at all, it was all a positive experience. Then a female colleague I dropped off in another site in the area mentioned some of the remarks the same workers made at her a week before while she was working with them for only one day. These were classical verbal sexual harassment comments. As she's a new worker I made sure to tell her that in such cases she should contact the province archaeologist straight away so she could raise hell.
I realize some don't like to hear it, because it's not politically correct. But that is absolutely true that on average sexual harassment is common among Middle Eastern men. Alceste's example is a classical one of luring a woman with niceness into a situation she is later going to regret finding herself in. Several of my female family members who live in Paris have been in the situation as Alceste also mentioned, and I've witnessed and heard the same in other places. I'm not even going to go into the experience in Mid Eastern countries my wife or other women I know had while trying to travel these countries. All one has to do is read the story of the young Egyptian girl Aliaa Magda Elmahdy to get some perspective about general mindset about what is expected of women and what they should look forward to if they protest it. In general it is a mild story compared to everyday occurrences which go unnoticed.
This week for example was a very nice one for me, I had a routine inspection in a road expansion where me and the workers got along very good, joked around, and they had me making them tea and coffee every day sometimes on hourly basis. No issues at all, it was all a positive experience. Then a female colleague I dropped off in another site in the area mentioned some of the remarks the same workers made at her a week before while she was working with them for only one day. These were classical verbal sexual harassment comments. As she's a new worker I made sure to tell her that in such cases she should contact the province archaeologist straight away so she could raise hell.
I realize some don't like to hear it, because it's not politically correct. But that is absolutely true that on average sexual harassment is common among Middle Eastern men. Alceste's example is a classical one of luring a woman with niceness into a situation she is later going to regret finding herself in. Several of my female family members who live in Paris have been in the situation as Alceste also mentioned, and I've witnessed and heard the same in other places. I'm not even going to go into the experience in Mid Eastern countries my wife or other women I know had while trying to travel these countries. All one has to do is read the story of the young Egyptian girl Aliaa Magda Elmahdy to get some perspective about general mindset about what is expected of women and what they should look forward to if they protest it. In general it is a mild story compared to everyday occurrences which go unnoticed.
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