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Meeting potential mates

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Smart_Guy

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-Peacemaker- said:
how's that working out for you?
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I haven't got on with it yet since I'm not ready to get married. But it is the way it goes in my community and always has been. This way, at least we can have a clue that the other side is serious to get married too, right next to still wanting to have a long engagement time to know each other, which gives higher possibilities to have a successful relationship.

Are you looking for a serious long term/ever lasting relationship or are you looking for dating?
 
-Peacemaker-

-Peacemaker-

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Smart_Guy said:
I haven't got on with it yet since I'm not ready to get married. But it is the way it goes in my community and always has been. This way, at least we can have a clue that the other side is serious to get married too, right next to still wanting to have a long engagement time to know each other, which gives higher possibilities to have a successful relationship.

Are you looking for a serious long term/ever lasting relationship or are you looking for dating?
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I'd like to get married but I don't make much of an effort to find good women to do that with. I feel really discouraged about finding a girl I'd really be happy with long term. I meet so many women also. I get a lot of interest but it's usually from the wrong women. Most of the women I meet bore me to tell you the truth. I've met so many people in my life that when I talk to people now it's like watching reruns. I sound like a jerk
 
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Smart_Guy

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Premium Member
-Peacemaker- said:
I'd like to get married but I don't make much of an effort to find good women to do that with. I feel really discouraged about finding a girl I'd really be happy with long term. I meet so many women also. I get a lot of interest but it's usually from the wrong women. Most of the women I meet bore me to tell you the truth. I've met so many people in my life that when I talk to people now it's like watching reruns. I sound like a jerk
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I'm not well informed about your community compared to mine to make a rule for this, but if you exist with this case, then there should be women that exist with a similar case like you. You could ask people you trust around you if they know other women like that along with looking around yourself. Just do it with an honest thought so God can help you with it.

I guess this much is all I can say about it. I hope you find your other half as soon as possible.
 
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Deidre

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Met my fiance through a friend who introduced me to him. Typically, in the past, a combination of clubs, parties, and through mutual friends.
 
Intojoy

Intojoy

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-Peacemaker- said:
One of my favorite topics. I love to talk about attracting women. I'm a giant flirt. I shy away from cheesy pick up lines. The bar scene isn't really my thing either. I wouldn't just go up to a girl sitting at bar that I thought was pretty and try to strike up a conversation. I prefer dance clubs. I think asking a girl to dance and then connecting with her nonverbally through dance is a great way to break the ice and move into conversation once the dance is over. You can also strike up a conversation while the dance is going if the mood is right. How do you guys like to meet potential mates?
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Reminds me. I used to point my finger at a girl and move to the dance floor and start without them, 8/10 would meet me on the floor hehe
 
james dixon

james dixon

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Sex is that all there is?

When I grew up I had one girl friend in elementary school. My father then sent me off to a military academy and I never saw her again. We loved each other but sex was not the term used in those days. I was taught that the purpose between a man and a woman was to have children. With those feelings I married and thankfully I had two sons who now have sons/daughter of their own.

My wife is no longer with me, we divorced. I miss the comforts of a woman so what do I do; can I still have the comforts of a women knowing it is not for procreation?

btw we divorced because I did not give her the comforts she needed. I should have used a condom and then things would have been different
 
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