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Memorial day, my favorite holiday!

Spiderman

Veteran Member
Memorial day is actually my official holiday, because even when I was a fifth grader with not an ounce of human decency, selfish and evil, I had the trace of noble quality in me to realize people in war go through the greatest hell, fear, trauma, torture, handicaps, and violent deaths, and I knew to love, honor, respect, and venerate them.

Much later in life I became totally convinced spirits of the deceased visited me , all of them originally victims of a violent death.

I have a connection to people who die tragic, violent, scary, petrifying deaths. I'm motivated to serve them , and do good deeds in their honor and bless them, more than anyone else, they have my love.

This happens to be the holiday honoring the most people who died scary , violent, unexpected deaths, many of them still teenagers, a terrible age to die violently and prematurely, so I take the holiday and honor and bless them and everyone else who died tragic, violent, painful, scary, unexpected deaths.

I like how Japan honors their wardead better than anyone. At Yasukuni Shrine, everyone who dies for their country while serving in the military, gets their name and birthdays written in a book of souls, millions of them enshrined in that matter, a structure created for spirits of wardead to dwell, priests and others celebrate rituals in their honor, pay homage to them, have relationship with them, treat them like Catholics treat their Saints.

That is far above and beyond how America honors their wardead at the Vietnam memorial, Arlington cemetery, or any place.

I feel like the agony soldiers go through, seeing your friends get violently killed and injured, severe PTSD, nightmares, loud noises, the screams of the wounded, the mutilated bodies, the feeling of dying like that, the abuse of prisoners of war, I just feel they deserve a special honor and reward for enduring unthinkable hell, fear, stress, misery, and torture.

Every country should have a Yasukuni Shrine imho. I visited the war memorials at Capitol Hill today. Did you do anything special?

As I said, Memorial day is the day I honor, bless, remember, and pray for all who died tragically, not just war dead though, so that is why it is most important to me, because that is the activity I find most rewarding, that gets me the most graces, something I find most meaningful. They seem to return the blessing.
 

Viker

Your beloved eccentric Auntie Cristal
Originally, this is a day to remember the fallen in combat for the US. I guess you can have a spin on it. As long as you remember, someone like an uncle I never got to meet who perished on Omaha Beach.
 

Spiderman

Veteran Member
Originally, this is a day to remember the fallen in combat for the US. I guess you can have a spin on it. As long as you remember, someone like an uncle I never got to meet who perished on Omaha Beach.
Yes. I like that, and so I honor them, but include remembering others who died tragic, scary, painful, violent deaths, but I'm aware that is straying from the original tradition , but I keep the original tradition, I just have included more souls in addition to that devotion.

But I visited war memorials on Capitol Hill today, and paid homage to war dead, which is in line with the original holiday spirit or tradition.
 

pearl

Well-Known Member
I just feel they deserve a special honor and reward for enduring unthinkable hell, fear, stress, misery, and torture.

Yes, we seemingly go through all the proper pomp in remembering our heroes, but then comes Tuesday and what's changed for the benefit of next heroes. Until the time when every veteran has a home, the same medical service as any private citizen, and the promises of further school and training are met, all the pomp is soon forgotten. I often spend time at our local Vietnam war memorial and remember how our country disgraced them.
 

Spiderman

Veteran Member
Yes, we seemingly go through all the proper pomp in remembering our heroes, but then comes Tuesday and what's changed for the benefit of next heroes. Until the time when every veteran has a home, the same medical service as any private citizen, and the promises of further school and training are met, all the pomp is soon forgotten. I often spend time at our local Vietnam war memorial and remember how our country disgraced them.
That is extremely sad. Also it really disturbs me the hell Vietnam veterans went through, the sacrifices they made, to return home traumatized or injured, to receive no honor, antagonism, insults, or bullying. I cannot imagine the hell. I , when suffering takes place, remember the hell people like that go through, offer up my suffering for them, and try not to complain, and be grateful.

Being someone who is broken and impoverished myself, I can't do much for such people, but I feel like I can assist them through blessing and prayers.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
Halloween is by far the best holiday....
- No get-togethers with extended family.
- No buying presents or incurrent thank-you note obligations.
- No ubiquitous sappy Xmas music.
- No business shut-downs.
- Costumes.
- Trick-or-treaters.
- Jack Skellington.
 
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