@icehorse
Concerning God hating disbelievers, interestingly, you will never see the words 'God hates disbelievers' in the Quran. Nor does it say God hates anything. Rather dislikes, or does not like.
Semantics. "Allah does not love disbelievers", and "Allah is the enemy of disbelievers" mean the same as "hates". Btw, you must have missed 35:39 -
Sahih International: It is He who has made you successors upon the earth. And whoever disbelieves - upon him will be [the consequence of] his disbelief. And the disbelief of the disbelievers does not increase them in the sight of their Lord except in hatred; and the disbelief of the disbelievers does not increase them except in loss.
Pickthall: He it is Who hath made you regents in the earth; so he who disbelieveth, his disbelief be on his own head. Their disbelief increaseth for the disbelievers, in their Lord's sight, naught save abhorrence. Their disbelief increaseth for the disbelievers naught save loss.
Yusuf Ali: He it is That has made you inheritors in the earth: if, then, any do reject (Allah), their rejection (works) against themselves: their rejection but adds to the odium for the Unbelievers in the sight of their Lord: their rejection but adds to (their own) undoing.
Shakir: He it is Who made you rulers in the land; therefore whoever disbelieves, his unbelief is against himself; and their unbelief does not increase the disbelievers with their Lord in anything except hatred; and their unbelief does not increase the disbelievers in anything except loss.
Muhammad Sarwar: It is He who has made you each other's successors on earth. Whoever disbelieves, does so against his own self. The disbelief of the unbelievers will only increase the anger of their Lord and will only cause them greater loss.
Mohsin Khan: He it is Who has made you successors generations after generations in the earth, so whosoever disbelieves (in Islamic Monotheism) on him will be his disbelief. And the disbelief of the disbelievers adds nothing but hatred with their Lord. And the disbelief of the disbelievers adds nothing but loss.
Arberry: It is He who appointed you viceroys in the earth. So whosoever disbelieves, his unbelief shall be charged against him;
their unbelief increases the disbelievers only in hate in God's sight; their unbelief increases the disbelievers only in loss.
Besides, how many hundreds of times does Allah have to call unbelievers "wicked, evil, perverted, etc." before you get the message. Your god ..... hates us. Period.