How could it not help me?
According to the Bible, (which is the only spiritual text book that is valid to me) you cannot worship other gods and still expect the true God to accept you as his own....to aid you and abet you in your abandonment of him to follow other deities or to practice false worship. Why do you think he describes himself as a 'jealous' God? He likens our relationship to him as a contract, sealed with our baptism, vowing to remain faithful to him, no matter what. I personally have no problem doing that because God's will is more important to me than my own.
This is his earth to do with as he sees fit. He gave the first humans a choice to follow his instructions, or to go their own way and suffer the inevitable consequences, which included being left to fulfill their own desires without him. God is under no obligation to anyone who wants to break the rules.....yet he leaves the door of opportunity open until the very last. We can stand outside complaining...or we can get over ourselves....come on in and knuckle under. He is a very benevolent Master.
He gave me a choice of who to believe and he gave me a secure place to put my faith. I did not seek to put my own needs above others and I wanted share the good news of something better to come, with those who seek God but cannot find him.
The Bible says that the heart is treacherous (Jeremiah 17:9).....it can become a 'partner in crime', justifying all manner of defective thinking.....but its a fool's paradise IMO. You can either become a willing slave to a loving God and respect his moral values and commands, or you can become a slave to yourself, and simply live by your own values, which will automatically disqualify you from all his future plans for this earth.....he didn't create it for nothing, you know. We have to fit in with his plans because he will never fit into ours.
Daniel Callahan, (PhD, is an internationally recognized thought leader in bioethics. A philosopher by training, Callahan co-founded the Hastings Center, a nonpartisan bioethics research institution) once wrote...
"If personal morality comes down to nothing more than the exercise of free choice, with no principles available for moral judgment of the quality of those choices, then law will inevitably be used to fill the resulting moral vacuum.”
The less people value morality, the more laws you need to combat their freedom to take away your freedom. A godless world is not a nice place to live. There isn't more than one God.
If your heart is not attracted to God, then his heart is not attracted to you....is that a hard concept to accommodate?
He sentenced the first humans to death for disobeying him.....for stealing from him and disrespecting his Sovereignty....his right to set the terms of their existence. What makes you think he is going to treat any other human differently?
He told the Israelites....
"I take the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you today that I have put life and death before you, the blessing and the curse; and you must choose life so that you may live, you and your descendants, 20 by loving Jehovah your God, by listening to his voice, and by sticking to him, for he is your life and by him you will endure a long time in the land". (Deuteronomy 30:19-20)
Realistically those are our choices. But loving God comes from getting to know him....and understanding the prospects that he is offering for the future.
There are terms to life.....it is a gift but it comes with conditions. If we do not meet them, we have no place in God's future plans.....that's it. Those are the only options.