McBell
Unbound
Again, that the meaning of the word is not something you like is a YOU problem.Yes! You have to ask because only the user of the word knows the meaning; but to everybody else the word is meaningless; so the user of the word has to use other words to clarify. If the word had meaning, the user of the word wouldn't have to use other words to clarify.
Why it is so important for you know their sex is also a YOU issue.
If you want to know their sex, ask them.
And don't dance around it like you have in this thread.