the spirit is buried in the grave, the body. This is why Jesus referred to some as dead. To be awakened is the first resurrection. Otherwise the person is dead to the spirit and the death of the body is terrifying.And yet, the Psalms say: "Where can I hide from your presence...?" And , "Before I was in my mother's womb, you knew me." Jesus is called, "God With Us." No, we're not "born in separation." We become separated as we are in the process of living life.