I neither much care to make spiritual values nor material values the core of my life.
That's not to say I lack opinions about them. The values themselves, I mean, and not the people who hold them dear. For instance, seems to me spiritual values, if by that is meant something supernatural, must in the end come down to naked hope. The unsupported hope that something is "there". But what good can that be to me?
I know well enough I don't have inside whatever it takes to convince some people supernatural things exist. I'm agnostic on that heading, but if so, how can I genuinely commit to values I might doubt are grounded?
Material values fare only marginally better with me. I value material things mostly so far as they are aides to living and promote my well being, or bring pleasures great and small. But I do not seek fulfillment from material things. I've played that game, found it wanting.
What I do value, and value highly: You could call it the core of my life, are "humane values".
Love, or more exactly, loving -- for I deem that better even than being loved. Compassion, kindness, generosity, and so forth -- the things so many say "are their own rewards." Beyond them, very much a sense of humor, and playfulness. Then understanding, knowledge, etc. All those common day things, those little things that make for so much of our happiness.
Perhaps overall, purpose or meaning, fulfillment, well being, and to flourish,
Then the last,. maybe the greatest, if I ever attain it: Kensho. Satori.
To paraphrase a Zen saying or two: Perhaps someday I will peel potatoes and only just that, wholly undistracted by all that is not then happening.
So, which set of values is at the core of your life? Spiritual values, material values, or humane values?
That's not to say I lack opinions about them. The values themselves, I mean, and not the people who hold them dear. For instance, seems to me spiritual values, if by that is meant something supernatural, must in the end come down to naked hope. The unsupported hope that something is "there". But what good can that be to me?
I know well enough I don't have inside whatever it takes to convince some people supernatural things exist. I'm agnostic on that heading, but if so, how can I genuinely commit to values I might doubt are grounded?
Material values fare only marginally better with me. I value material things mostly so far as they are aides to living and promote my well being, or bring pleasures great and small. But I do not seek fulfillment from material things. I've played that game, found it wanting.
What I do value, and value highly: You could call it the core of my life, are "humane values".
Love, or more exactly, loving -- for I deem that better even than being loved. Compassion, kindness, generosity, and so forth -- the things so many say "are their own rewards." Beyond them, very much a sense of humor, and playfulness. Then understanding, knowledge, etc. All those common day things, those little things that make for so much of our happiness.
Perhaps overall, purpose or meaning, fulfillment, well being, and to flourish,
Then the last,. maybe the greatest, if I ever attain it: Kensho. Satori.
To paraphrase a Zen saying or two: Perhaps someday I will peel potatoes and only just that, wholly undistracted by all that is not then happening.
So, which set of values is at the core of your life? Spiritual values, material values, or humane values?