I think before any further conversation on issues regarding photons and the "thought-experiment" in the OP's question it may be useful to give some brief remarks on the nature of photons from actual physics literature rather than my personal explanations, partly so that I can refer to them if need be and/or explain what they mean. So I searched for some of the briefest, clearest explanations from technical literature in relevant fields on the non-existence of photons as they are described in the OP. Naturally, the result contained far too many short, concise summaries. So I just selected a handful:
“no photon can ever be regarded as entirely ‘real’”.
Andrews, D. L. (2015). A Photon Perspective. In D. L. Andrew (Ed.), Fundamentals of Photonics and Physics (Photonics: Scientific Foundations, Technology and Applications, Vol. I) (pp. 1-25). Wiley-Science.
"A free photon is an abstraction. Only during its interaction with matter (charged massive particle(s)) does the photon come to “existence” (can be registered)."
O. Keller (2014). Light: The Physics of the Photon (Series in Optics and Optoelectronics). CRC Press.
“where intuitively we have, say, an assembly of n photons each persisting in time, we really have only at each moment n photon stages (temporal slices), and there is no objectivity of any sort to the classification of one of these photon stages at time t belonging to the same photon as one or other of the stages at time t + d. A photon stage at a certain time is really no more than an event…”
C. van Fraasen, B. (1998). The Problem of Indistinguishable Particles. In E. Castellalni (Ed.) Interpreting Bodies: Classical and Quantum Objects in Modern Physics (pp. 73-92). Princeton University Press.
“The complete indistinguishability of photons directly follows...since they are not separate entities. Logically, photons hardly deserve the dignity of a noun. When you speak more correctly of different levels of excitation of the modes of the field the question of the identity of the photons becomes meaningless. They are truly faceless.”
Mills, R. (1993). Tutorial on Infinities in QED. In L. M. Brown (Ed.), Renormalization: From Lorentz to Landau (and Beyond) (pp. 59-85). Springer.
“there is no indication that, for instance, the idea of the ‘position of a light quantum’ (or the ‘probability for the position’) has any simple physical meaning…light quanta occur in the theory only as quantum numbers attached to the radiation oscillators. Two light quanta cannot therefore be distinguished from each other. Furthermore, the number of quanta attached to each oscillator is not limited.”
Heitler, W. (1954). The Quantum Theory of Radiation (3rd Ed.). Oxford University Press.
“since the initial and emergent states for each such interaction relate to quanta of excitation in different radiation modes, it is essentially meaningless to regard the input and output as the same photon. More correctly, one has to regard each scattering event as the annihilation of one photon and the creation of another.”
Andrews, D. L. (2015). A Photon Perspective. In D. L. Andrew (Ed.), Fundamentals of Photonics and Physics (Photonics: Scientific Foundations, Technology and Applications, Vol. I) (pp. 1-25). Wiley-Science.
“no photon can ever be regarded as entirely ‘real’”.
Andrews, D. L. (2015). A Photon Perspective. In D. L. Andrew (Ed.), Fundamentals of Photonics and Physics (Photonics: Scientific Foundations, Technology and Applications, Vol. I) (pp. 1-25). Wiley-Science.
"A free photon is an abstraction. Only during its interaction with matter (charged massive particle(s)) does the photon come to “existence” (can be registered)."
O. Keller (2014). Light: The Physics of the Photon (Series in Optics and Optoelectronics). CRC Press.
“where intuitively we have, say, an assembly of n photons each persisting in time, we really have only at each moment n photon stages (temporal slices), and there is no objectivity of any sort to the classification of one of these photon stages at time t belonging to the same photon as one or other of the stages at time t + d. A photon stage at a certain time is really no more than an event…”
C. van Fraasen, B. (1998). The Problem of Indistinguishable Particles. In E. Castellalni (Ed.) Interpreting Bodies: Classical and Quantum Objects in Modern Physics (pp. 73-92). Princeton University Press.
“The complete indistinguishability of photons directly follows...since they are not separate entities. Logically, photons hardly deserve the dignity of a noun. When you speak more correctly of different levels of excitation of the modes of the field the question of the identity of the photons becomes meaningless. They are truly faceless.”
Mills, R. (1993). Tutorial on Infinities in QED. In L. M. Brown (Ed.), Renormalization: From Lorentz to Landau (and Beyond) (pp. 59-85). Springer.
“there is no indication that, for instance, the idea of the ‘position of a light quantum’ (or the ‘probability for the position’) has any simple physical meaning…light quanta occur in the theory only as quantum numbers attached to the radiation oscillators. Two light quanta cannot therefore be distinguished from each other. Furthermore, the number of quanta attached to each oscillator is not limited.”
Heitler, W. (1954). The Quantum Theory of Radiation (3rd Ed.). Oxford University Press.
“since the initial and emergent states for each such interaction relate to quanta of excitation in different radiation modes, it is essentially meaningless to regard the input and output as the same photon. More correctly, one has to regard each scattering event as the annihilation of one photon and the creation of another.”
Andrews, D. L. (2015). A Photon Perspective. In D. L. Andrew (Ed.), Fundamentals of Photonics and Physics (Photonics: Scientific Foundations, Technology and Applications, Vol. I) (pp. 1-25). Wiley-Science.