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Poll: Gay and Lesbian

Gay and Lesbian attraction

  • You have dated and would consider sex with the opposite sex

    Votes: 1 33.3%
  • You have never dated and would not consider sex with the opposite sex.

    Votes: 2 66.7%

  • Total voters
    3

Just_me_Mike

Well-Known Member
Whichever you happen to be, do you ever find the opposite attractive, maybe even enough that you would either have sex, or consider a relationship.

I have known many gays or lesbians, that have dated the opposite sex, but ultimately chose to be with the same sex. I don't consider them Bi.

How about you?
 

Storm

ThrUU the Looking Glass
It's tricky....

Personally, I think if you have any sexual attraction to both sexes, however mild, you're bi. The rest is just preference.

OTOH, many gays and lesbians try to force themselves straight before accepting themselves. So, I wouldn't automatically assume that a self-identified homosexual was REALLY bi just because they dated someone of the opposite sex.
 

IndieVisible

Official Party Crasher
I disagree. You can be what is called bi-curious, try it and be done with it or still occasionally try it and still lean towards one or the other.

Are they really bi if they have a preference or experimented?
 

MSizer

MSizer
I've heard that some male gay porn stars are straight but they do it for the money. I have a very hard time believing that. I suspect maybe some of them think they're straight, but I know that no amount of money would sway me to even do it once, so I suspect they're bi and don't realize it.
 

Storm

ThrUU the Looking Glass
I disagree. You can be what is called bi-curious, try it and be done with it or still occasionally try it and still lean towards one or the other.

Are they really bi if they have a preference or experimented?
Oh, believe me... I'm well aware of the bi-curious. :facepalm:

I'm not including experimentation. Some people honestly don't know. I'm saying that if you have genuine attraction to both sexes, you're bi.
 

IndieVisible

Official Party Crasher
Oh, believe me... I'm well aware of the bi-curious. :facepalm:

I'm not including experimentation. Some people honestly don't know. I'm saying that if you have genuine attraction to both sexes, you're bi.

Don't feel bad, you know what they say? All females are just one drink away from a lesbian experience. Perhaps hetero also applies equally? :)
 

KatNotKathy

Well-Known Member
I suppose I'm technically bi, but have no real interest in pursuing any real relationship with a man. I just find some of their bits interesting sometimes.

If I found a real cute guy I could probably go for a one-night stand or something, but I can't really imagine anything more. I just don't find guys attractive in any non-sexual context.

Sorry guys, but I only want you for the sex.
 

Mike182

Flaming Queer
I'm gay, have never had attractions to the opposite sex, have never considered seriously dating the opposite sex, and would never consider sleeping with the opposite sex.
 

Magic Man

Reaper of Conversation
I've heard that some male gay porn stars are straight but they do it for the money. I have a very hard time believing that. I suspect maybe some of them think they're straight, but I know that no amount of money would sway me to even do it once, so I suspect they're bi and don't realize it.

I don't know, man. They say the money is really, really good for gay porn. I don't think I could do it, but then again, I'm not sure I could do hetero porn. I think if you're at the point of having sex with another guy on camera, you wouldn't need to deny it to yourself anymore.
 
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