To a large extent, that's where study and meditation comes in. There are people who can help you with that process, but please at the same time realize that they will be giving their take on things, whereas you ultimately must develop your own take, but from as an objective approach as possible. It is very important to keep an open mind along the way.
Yes, I feel after more study I will start to understand a little more how things are viewed and interpreted by individuals. And I've always been one that takes others views into consideration and stays open minded to help myself ultimately understand as much as I can.