Treks
Well-Known Member
Hello ladies
Have (do) any of you suffer from regular (for arguments sake lets say 'monthly' hehe) mood swings or hormonal depressions?
If so, what strategies do you employ to handle it?
For more than 10 years I've put up with big hormonal mood swings and attitude issues, which I'm sure was partly responsible for the breakdown of my first relationship, and is now putting additional stress on my marriage.
If I take a contraceptive like the Pill I'm fine, but my doctor doesn't want me to take the Pill because of my family history of eostrogen-related cancer. I've tried the depo-provera shot and although it evened out the mood overall it didn't really work for me in other (not insignificant) areas.
And honestly I don't want to be putting hormones into my body. But I've got a complicated marriage, I'm the only one who works, and I'm tired and stressed a lot and usually I can take everything in my stride and manage with a positive attitude but for a week or so every cycle I just feel like it's all too much, I cry, struggle to be nice or even just normal with my husband (who is very sensitive and routined so if I change the tone of my voice one morning all hell breaks loose), struggle to be civil with my co-workers, feel depressed and dejected and every small thing becomes a massive issue for me, passive-aggressively.
So yeah, any tips on how to gain perspective while in the bottom of this moody pit would be really appreciated.
Thanks
Have (do) any of you suffer from regular (for arguments sake lets say 'monthly' hehe) mood swings or hormonal depressions?
If so, what strategies do you employ to handle it?
For more than 10 years I've put up with big hormonal mood swings and attitude issues, which I'm sure was partly responsible for the breakdown of my first relationship, and is now putting additional stress on my marriage.
If I take a contraceptive like the Pill I'm fine, but my doctor doesn't want me to take the Pill because of my family history of eostrogen-related cancer. I've tried the depo-provera shot and although it evened out the mood overall it didn't really work for me in other (not insignificant) areas.
And honestly I don't want to be putting hormones into my body. But I've got a complicated marriage, I'm the only one who works, and I'm tired and stressed a lot and usually I can take everything in my stride and manage with a positive attitude but for a week or so every cycle I just feel like it's all too much, I cry, struggle to be nice or even just normal with my husband (who is very sensitive and routined so if I change the tone of my voice one morning all hell breaks loose), struggle to be civil with my co-workers, feel depressed and dejected and every small thing becomes a massive issue for me, passive-aggressively.
So yeah, any tips on how to gain perspective while in the bottom of this moody pit would be really appreciated.
Thanks