For example, a peanut butter sandwich on whole wheat, milk and fruit is a good veg. meal.
Run from the peanut butter you fools ! It's so full of fat ! And calories ! Run !
Ahem anyway did you try to change little by little some things ? For exemple, a nice home made vegetable soup with some bread and fruit/yoghurt is a nice and healthy evening meal, and veg soup is very easy to make !
For exemple, when you eat some pasta, throw away the ketchup and carbonara sauce, and put instead some nice spinach with a spoonful of 0% fat cream into it
If you can try drinking some green tea, it drain the fat and clean the inside. Also, completely drop the soda and drink at least 1 liter of water everyday, water help the body assimilating the fat, while the sugar in sodas doesn't
Indian veg cuisine is very technical and kind of difficult to cook at first. I think you should maybe change some things on your diet that are easier to find and to accomodate, then after move into to technical tastiness of Indian cuisine
Don't think about what you shouldn't eat, more about what you can eat without worrying ! Like soups, they are so low in fat and calories, you can just have always more ! Same for the raw vegetables, cut some carrots, cucumber and clean a cauliflower, then just eat them like that as snacks every time you are hungry, or dip them into a 0% fat homemade sauce (you can make it with a yoghurt and some spices easily)
I love raw vegetables, and you can eat them without thinking "oh my, I shouldn't, it will be bad for my diet !" so you have the satisfaction of eating something good for you without the quantity - guilt.
Like my mother say: eat like a king on the morning, like a man on mid day, like a bum on the evening