I would tend to agree, but I've also run across the notion that there is no such thing as a religion of one, and that religions by definition must be shared by a group of people. As someone whose religious demographic is basically full of a bunch of solitary practitioners, or "religions of one," that's obviously going to color my perspective on this topic. There are Pagan groups out there, but the nature of the movement makes those the exception to the general rule of religion alone for us.
In general, I'd say that's the common definition. I wouldn't say someone who can only practice alone isn't religious by definition. Unless that person doesn't have traditions and practices that support her belief, I'd consider her to have a religion (religion of one) just as the coven of practitioners beside her.
I do try to get out of the association of what religion, god, and spirituality is as how it is defined by our christian environment. I'd liken it to the definition of god. If god was commonly associated with a creator figure of love and so forth; then, do Pagans actually believe in any god? There are flexibility in the terms unless going by strict dictionary definition; but, that would be putting people in a box.
Can you rephrase this "There are Pagan groups out there, but the nature of the movement makes those the exception to the general rule of religion alone for us."?
Could you expand a bit more on this notion of what one wants to believe or practice versus what one actually believes or practices? I feel like there's something interesting to explore there.
I can only compare this to my own religious experiences.
It's like I've practiced and/or interested in Catholicism, Paganism, Lukumi, Buddhism, and possibly Hindu. I'm an atheist. Probably pantheist (as since I came on RF
), and animist. I like the strict devotion of Muslim faith, the variety of ways to see life in Hindu, the communion and union in Catholicism, and so on and so forth. These are things I "want" to believe if the situation befalls me
...but what I want to believe and what
I know is true are two different things. If I know something is true, I no longer need to believe in it. I have knowledge. I wouldn't say discredit beliefs. If, for example, someone asked me "explain why you believe two and two is four" I can do so with knowledge and trust of accuracy in my math. If I believed two and two is five and disregarded the facts just based my life on the belief, if someone asked me the same question, how can I answer objectively?
When we believe something
and we say it is based on reality it should make sense in the general scheme of things. It should at least have some sort of attachment to how reality works. For example, in my point of view, I can be happy and well-settled that two and two is five. The very fact it does not, upsets my general sense of reality. Morals and beliefs are one thing. Practices and facts are another. How do you make two and two is five in practice not just by morals and what we
want to believe is true?
Isn't there descrimination in our religion that what we believe is based on reality or the world as it is objectively
as well as or
not just what we believe or even want to believe is true?
What is it about westerners to descredit the physical in light of the spiritual (or however termed)?
So, basically, my point, sorry, is what we want to believe (two and two is five) can help us a lot. In religion of one, a person has the benefit and freedom to believe as he or she chooses. In my personal opinion, if I can't practice it (I can't make two and two five) and it doesn't physical not just morally connect with reality, that math problem doesn't help me make sense of the world.
Now, on the other hand, many people use myths, creative stories, and so forth to understand reality and life. If it is used as a learning tool, then religion of one or group religions would be in the same boat. When using these stories as facts; then, they don't align themselves to reality, and I can't make sense of the world in something that, well, doesn't make sense.
So the religions and philosophies I concerned what I want to believe and went down to what I know is fact. With that, the stories related to say my ancestors reflect reality because it is based on something I know not just something I believe.
Makes sense?
Role. Function. Purpose. What do you use solitary work for, if applicable?
Communing with ancestors and family in spirit takes time to build a relationship beyond offerings and asking for advice. So, having that relationship, it's a one person thing because I am the only one that knows my family if I were in a group religion. That would mean solitary work is for personal practices while you have other practices that are done as a group. It depends on the relationship with the people you with and how much you trust each person. In the Church, people have Mass together but after or before Mass, each individual person may choose to go to a saint stature that calls to them. They have private prayer there. It's personal.
It builds intimate relationship with the god(s) you believe in, for example.
Hah... I hadn't thought about the connection this topic could have with the individualist nature of American (and more broadly, Western) culture. It's curious that in a society that is generally "lone gunslinger" would have such a strong bastion of community-based religion. You would think that we would be a nation of "religion alone" practitioners, but that is not the case. Maybe we retain the community-based foundation because America inherited religious institutions from centuries past that were not modeled on solitary practice?
I honestly think we abused the community-based foundation and became
protest -ants in the process. I feel originally we were a community-based country before people wanted to be on their lone-some. Also, it could be based on our history of separation between England (right?) and the US. Like a child may lean towards his mother or father during the divorce and maybe the divorce would influence that child where he or she sees moral grounding in divorce if for the "right" reasons.
I can give you more resources about "American Culture". We actually do have one but I was reading that Americans deny it because they feel culture is based on geographic locations. That's one of many reasons why I
hate the word "westerners" in application to what we believe and others. We shouldn't be ashamed of our culture just know it more and how that affects how we relate to self, others, and environment. Wanting to be individuals isn't a bad thing. Not many people want to be around family. The compare and contrast among "westeners" (yes, I said it
) is annoying but part of our culture too.