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Religious Understandings of Homosexuality

Rival

Diex Aie
Staff member
Premium Member
I did fool around with a young man in high school actually. I’ve never had sex with a man but I’ve done other things. I remember being turned on just because humans being turned on is arousing. But I remember vividly just being totally neutral-feeling about this being a male. Like that affected me sexually not at all. I think that’s a big indicator. It’s not disgust, I mean, bodies are just bodies and there’s nothing gross about men being men. But I was just not aroused at all by his maleness. Not one bit. It was the arousal that aroused me. It wasn’t until I was more openly with women that I was like “oh this is what arousal really is”
Stuff like this has always been interesting to me.

This article reviews what is currently known about how men and women respond to the presentation of visual sexual stimuli. While the assumption that men respond more to visual sexual stimuli is generally empirically supported, previous reports of sex differences are confounded by the variable content of the stimuli presented and measurement techniques. We propose that the cognitive processing stage of responding to sexual stimuli is the first stage in which sex differences occur. The divergence between men and women is proposed to occur at this time, reflected in differences in neural activation, and contribute to previously reported sex differences in downstream peripheral physiological responses and subjective reports of sexual arousal. Additionally, this review discusses factors that may contribute to the variability in sex differences observed in response to visual sexual stimuli. Factors include participant variables, such as hormonal state and socialized sexual attitudes, as well as variables specific to the content presented in the stimuli. Based on the literature reviewed, we conclude that content characteristics may differentially produce higher levels of sexual arousal in men and women. Specifically, men appear more influenced by the sex of the actors depicted in the stimuli while women’s response may differ with the context presented. Sexual motivation, perceived gender role expectations, and sexual attitudes are possible influences. These differences are of practical importance to future research on sexual arousal that aims to use experimental stimuli comparably appealing to men and women and also for general understanding of cognitive sex differences.

Sex Differences in Response to Visual Sexual Stimuli: A Review (nih.gov)

In contrast to men, both heterosexual and lesbian women tend to become sexually aroused by both male and female erotica, and, thus, have a bisexual arousal pattern.

“These findings likely represent a fundamental difference between men’s and women’s brains and have important implications for understanding how sexual orientation development differs between men and women,” said J. Michael Bailey, PhD, professor and chair of psychology at Northwestern and senior researcher of the study “A Sex Difference in the Specificity of Sexual Arousal.” The study is forthcoming in the journal Psychological Science .

[...]

The Northwestern study strongly suggests this is true. The Northwestern researchers measured the psychological and physiological sexual arousal in homosexual and heterosexual men and women as they watched erotic films. There were three types of erotic films: those featuring only men, those featuring only women, and those featuring male and female couples. As with previous research, the researchers found that men responded consistently with their sexual orientations. In contrast, both homosexual and heterosexual women showed a bisexual pattern of psychological as well as genital arousal. That is, heterosexual women were just as sexually aroused by watching female stimuli as by watching male stimuli, even though they prefer having sex with men rather than women.


Study on Differences in Female, Male Sexuality - News Center (northwestern.edu)
 
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firedragon

Veteran Member
I'm mostly interested in the views of religious folks here (those belonging to what I might call established religions, rather than New Age, SPNR etc.) I'm also not really looking for debate but felt this would be best placed here at any rate.

It's been well noted that almost before the early 20th century, the word and concept of 'homosexual/ity' didn't exist and sex was thought of as what one did with whom rather than to whom one was attracted. This led to a greater freedom in areas of sexuality, as far as this article is concerned, rather than labelling folks,

Sex and Gender in the Victorian Era - The Atlantic

For the Victorians, the situation was much more fluid. A woman’s romantic interest in another woman could be seen as excellent preparation for marriage. Though sex between men was a criminal offense (in Britain, lesbianism was invisible before the law), there was, as yet, hardly a homosexual identity defined by same-sex desire. Until the early 1950s, a man could have sex with another man without thinking himself in any respect “abnormal”—as long as he steered clear of the feminine dress or behaviour that marked a so-called pouf or queen. To pry off the Benson roof is to ask the question: What was it like to live before and during the invention of modern sexuality?

[...]

Absolute as Victorian moral certainties appeared to be, they nonetheless permitted a great deal of ambiguity in matters romantic and sexual, even in the most respectable of families. The marriage of Minnie and Edward—“intricate, sensitive, caring, and deeply committed,” as Goldhill describes it—ran alongside her love for women. True, the complications of the Benson marriage caused some anguish on both sides and undeniably left their children confused as to the state of their parents’ feelings for each other. But to his credit, Goldhill doesn’t attempt to tidy up the Bensons’ complexities.


One man who we would now label homosexual had this to contribute,


Was it possible, Arthur wondered, that he had “the soul of a woman in the body of a man”? Even though the term homosexual was coming into currency, he did not use it until 1924, the year before he died. And when he did use it, after a theoretical conversation on the subject with Fred, he wrote the word out—“the homo sexual question”—in a way that suggested unfamiliarity.


Even as late as 1924, apparently, people we'd now call gay or lesbian didn't see themselves as having any innate identity. And finally, this,

The same year, Virginia Woolf (who had both a husband and a female lover) lamented the erosion of sexual ambiguity. Unlike Fred Benson, she was unsentimental about her Victorian upbringing, yet as the dichotomy between homosexual and heterosexual solidified, she could see what had been lost: “Where people mistake, as I think, is in perpetually narrowing and naming these immensely composite and wide flung passions—driving stakes through them, herding them between screens.”


[...]

The irony of all this is something that no gay liberationist would have thought possible when the campaign for homosexual rights was regarded as a grave threat to the social order. Sandwiched between the fluidity of the Victorian years and the proliferating sexual and gender identities of the new millennium, the late 20th century’s straight-gay paradigm looks decidedly old-fashioned—maybe even a little stodgy.


Now my main question here is a simple one, but I had to preface it with the above as a way of really getting into what I mean.

Are there any religious folks here who subscribe to the notion that human sexuality is fluid (as the pre-20th century people saw it) or are you on board with the new view? I tend to agree with the former view, but would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks.

Sir Edward Coke said in his "institutions" way back in 1628 that homosexuality was imported to England brought by
Lombard merchants and was earlier spoken of in England dating back to the 14th century. They used the word sodomy so if the term homo-sexual is what you were speaking about, they used other words for it. If I am not mistaken, approaching the 16th century the word "buggery" was used for adultery or simply "sexual activity without the intent of making babies", but the buggery act of 1533 turned it into a different aspect speaking of sexual activity mankind of beast and homosexuality was plugged into it. Killing homosexuals was carried out until the 19th century or the early 19th century. Later they turned it into "gross indecency" between two males and were jailed. The last killing of homosexuals was of these two men in the 18 hundreds. So I think, though you seem to allude it was accepted, it was not. As late as the 20th century, Joseph Stalin being an atheist was jailing homosexuals up to five years. When the Portuguese were ruling around the world, they implemented death penalty for homosexuality in Brazil. Even Lesbians were executed. That was in the early 16 hundreds. It is true that in England, the so called Puritans used the Old Testament for these laws probably out of convenience, but it becomes normalised the bible did not need invoking anymore in the United States which also changed the term from Sodomy to Buggery. The legal prohibition of homosexuality in Navy Ships which were for a long time an offence ending up with capital punishment took place only in the 1960's.

If the term homosexual is the issue, homosexual as a word is almost a mirror image of the word Arsenokoitus in the New Testament. Homo+sexual almost is equal to Men+sexual or Arsen+Koitus (like coitus), men being man to man but the NT does not address female to female explicitly like in the OT. I said all of this just to respond to your assumption that pre 20th century it was all fine, but after that it is a "new view" about homosexuality which in my opinion is absolutely wrong, unless I have misunderstood you.

I am not positing any of my personal opinions about homosexuality here. I am only stating that homosexuality was shunned before the 20th century, where ever you turned so the notion you had depicted is wrong. Prior to the 20th century there were some countries that did come up with direct laws accepting homosexuality and giving homosexuals their full rights. It happened in the so called "Islamic Khalifate" in the 19th century. 1853? Somewhere there. Somewhere between 1850 and 1860, the Ottoman Empire gave full homosexual rights to its citizens and of course this is hush hush because no one wants to talk about these kind of things for some reason. But yeah, this happened. But well-hell, Dais is killing homosexuals we hear so this is what religion does we assume. ;)

In Islam there have been various traditions but the most famous one is that homosexuals are killed in some countries at least, in the 20th century. Saudi Arabia will kill you, but not with a homosexual law because nothing like that exists in the Islamic law, but the act of sodomy is deemed "adultery" and they use the adultery law to kill homosexuals.

Nevertheless, the point is, your "new view" is actually the old view but with different terms. The Tanakh describes the act without using one word. the NT creates a word. Or at least Saul creates a word that was probably never used before to refer to homosexuals shunning them along with murderers, drunkards and thieves. Also "soft men" or Malakoi. All in the same boat. Around the world, from France, Japan, to England, homosexuals were shunned, the act was slammed, and the so called perpetrators were punished, sometimes with death.

Cheers.
 
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1213

Well-Known Member
...Are there any religious folks here who subscribe to the notion that human sexuality is fluid ...

At the moment I think sexuality is similar to taste of food. All people have sexuality, how they use it depends on how they grow. I don’t think children are sexual at the beginning. It is something that grows at the same time they grow. Normally it grows to heterosexual way, because there is usually example of it and I think also because it is the reasonable way. But in some cases, there may happen things in life that distort the development and person grows to have sexual taste that is not good.

That is why, I think sexuality is fluid, especially when person is young. But similarly as in all aspects of life, when person gets older, the habits become more permanent.
 

firedragon

Veteran Member
All people have sexuality, how they use it depends on how they grow. I don’t think children are sexual at the beginning.

No one knows that. There are some children who showed different traits when they were too small to have been influenced and grew up to be homosexual.
 

rational experiences

Veteran Member
The Christian teaching said we are all innocent children on earth.

Sex is notably stated to be an adult situation. Sex in gods eye with adults.

So adults know sex with children is wrong.

As innocence is lived as it's status.

Sex normally is chosen in a non public secret or hidden from review choice.

Unless the situation of consent between partners is not consent then we say it is natural.

If no one discussed the topic then actually it is not known.

So you then ask why the topic is discussed.

Humans state as the bible quotes information.

As taught the bible I understood states why the life of a human was changed. As the bible is the topic changed life of humans in presence of humans.

As the teaching says natural human life began as man woman pairing.

It also stated why the life of man was changed by occult satanic conditions and sacrificed.

As first humans before sex and babies were naturally paired.

Using common sense I then understood humans as healers being biological medical genesis advice stated life of Hu man had been changed.

As you have to be living as. Human in a human condition to observe the nature of a human condition to discuss human relationships and human behaviours.

Naturally life sacrificed said it had been witnessed. The occult is nuclear satanic science. So as we live watching observing life genesis change we are taught why. Pre taught.

Occult conditions nuclear satanic radiation is changing genetics and consciousness.

As CH arise gas came out of God earths stone. We live as Christ consciousness as taught. Mutual balances.

Occult science is burning gods stone spirits....gases consciousness and genesis is changing.

It happened before as history says it did and it had disappeared in behaviour as no science was practiced for a long time. Now it is seen in a huge human experience of life changing being destroyed.

I knew the bible was stating fact and fiction as the occult is human chosen and not of God.....natural.

In the human past it was lived.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
I'm mostly interested in the views of religious folks here (those belonging to what I might call established religions, rather than New Age, SPNR etc.) I'm also not really looking for debate but felt this would be best placed here at any rate.

It's been well noted that almost before the early 20th century, the word and concept of 'homosexual/ity' didn't exist and sex was thought of as what one did with whom rather than to whom one was attracted. This led to a greater freedom in areas of sexuality, as far as this article is concerned, rather than labelling folks,

Sex and Gender in the Victorian Era - The Atlantic

For the Victorians, the situation was much more fluid. A woman’s romantic interest in another woman could be seen as excellent preparation for marriage. Though sex between men was a criminal offense (in Britain, lesbianism was invisible before the law), there was, as yet, hardly a homosexual identity defined by same-sex desire. Until the early 1950s, a man could have sex with another man without thinking himself in any respect “abnormal”—as long as he steered clear of the feminine dress or behaviour that marked a so-called pouf or queen. To pry off the Benson roof is to ask the question: What was it like to live before and during the invention of modern sexuality?

[...]

Absolute as Victorian moral certainties appeared to be, they nonetheless permitted a great deal of ambiguity in matters romantic and sexual, even in the most respectable of families. The marriage of Minnie and Edward—“intricate, sensitive, caring, and deeply committed,” as Goldhill describes it—ran alongside her love for women. True, the complications of the Benson marriage caused some anguish on both sides and undeniably left their children confused as to the state of their parents’ feelings for each other. But to his credit, Goldhill doesn’t attempt to tidy up the Bensons’ complexities.


One man who we would now label homosexual had this to contribute,


Was it possible, Arthur wondered, that he had “the soul of a woman in the body of a man”? Even though the term homosexual was coming into currency, he did not use it until 1924, the year before he died. And when he did use it, after a theoretical conversation on the subject with Fred, he wrote the word out—“the homo sexual question”—in a way that suggested unfamiliarity.


Even as late as 1924, apparently, people we'd now call gay or lesbian didn't see themselves as having any innate identity. And finally, this,

The same year, Virginia Woolf (who had both a husband and a female lover) lamented the erosion of sexual ambiguity. Unlike Fred Benson, she was unsentimental about her Victorian upbringing, yet as the dichotomy between homosexual and heterosexual solidified, she could see what had been lost: “Where people mistake, as I think, is in perpetually narrowing and naming these immensely composite and wide flung passions—driving stakes through them, herding them between screens.”


[...]

The irony of all this is something that no gay liberationist would have thought possible when the campaign for homosexual rights was regarded as a grave threat to the social order. Sandwiched between the fluidity of the Victorian years and the proliferating sexual and gender identities of the new millennium, the late 20th century’s straight-gay paradigm looks decidedly old-fashioned—maybe even a little stodgy.


Now my main question here is a simple one, but I had to preface it with the above as a way of really getting into what I mean.

Are there any religious folks here who subscribe to the notion that human sexuality is fluid (as the pre-20th century people saw it) or are you on board with the new view? I tend to agree with the former view, but would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks.

Many priests have earnestly sought knowledge of homosexuality using boys as visual aids and props to practice the various positions.

They bent the laws of mankind to hide their actions, often asking their victims not to embarrass the church by telling on them.

The dutiful little boys sometimes thought that it must be alright, because a priest was requesting it, though they must have wondered why God would want them to do these things.

I think that the mankind imposed requirement of celibacy causes priests to be pedophiles. That was greed motivated by the church to keep the mammon in the hands of the church rather than will it to heirs. (That is, if priests don't marry, and don't have kids, the church gets their property).

I wonder if those in the clergy are predisposed to homosexuality in the first place? They are not built like brick layers or truckers. Some have high pitched voices like Gay basher Reverend Jerry Falwell, who insists that it is easy to switch gender roles (maybe for him it is easy?).
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
The Christian teaching said we are all innocent children on earth.

Sex is notably stated to be an adult situation. Sex in gods eye with adults.

So adults know sex with children is wrong.

As innocence is lived as it's status.

Sex normally is chosen in a non public secret or hidden from review choice.

Unless the situation of consent between partners is not consent then we say it is natural.

If no one discussed the topic then actually it is not known.

So you then ask why the topic is discussed.

Humans state as the bible quotes information.

As taught the bible I understood states why the life of a human was changed. As the bible is the topic changed life of humans in presence of humans.

As the teaching says natural human life began as man woman pairing.

It also stated why the life of man was changed by occult satanic conditions and sacrificed.

As first humans before sex and babies were naturally paired.

Using common sense I then understood humans as healers being biological medical genesis advice stated life of Hu man had been changed.

As you have to be living as. Human in a human condition to observe the nature of a human condition to discuss human relationships and human behaviours.

Naturally life sacrificed said it had been witnessed. The occult is nuclear satanic science. So as we live watching observing life genesis change we are taught why. Pre taught.

Occult conditions nuclear satanic radiation is changing genetics and consciousness.

As CH arise gas came out of God earths stone. We live as Christ consciousness as taught. Mutual balances.

Occult science is burning gods stone spirits....gases consciousness and genesis is changing.

It happened before as history says it did and it had disappeared in behaviour as no science was practiced for a long time. Now it is seen in a huge human experience of life changing being destroyed.

I knew the bible was stating fact and fiction as the occult is human chosen and not of God.....natural.

In the human past it was lived.

For centuries, discussion of boy-raping priests was not discussed. It was hidden, and priests were allowed to continue raping little boys.

Discussion, today, brings rapists and molesters to justice. It galvanizes the voice of the people to protect the most vulnerable of our society (our progeny is our future).

Thus, free speech protects us.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
At the moment I think sexuality is similar to taste of food. All people have sexuality, how they use it depends on how they grow. I don’t think children are sexual at the beginning. It is something that grows at the same time they grow. Normally it grows to heterosexual way, because there is usually example of it and I think also because it is the reasonable way. But in some cases, there may happen things in life that distort the development and person grows to have sexual taste that is not good.

That is why, I think sexuality is fluid, especially when person is young. But similarly as in all aspects of life, when person gets older, the habits become more permanent.

A lot of old men turn Gay.
 

rational experiences

Veteran Member
In the ancient days men and women segregated trying to abstain from sex and inheriting mutated babies. Religious ceremony was practiced separately.

Genesis mutation pyramid fallout was witnessed. Causes.

Yet brain chemistry is not controlled. Radiation changed the brains chemistry. No control. Feedback vision in the man's designer theist life is proven sexual.

Why men reading bible theorising in a modern brain irradiated claim sex is a prize after death.

Living the proof ourselves.

Men hence could not control their urges. Older men became sexually re stimulated. So lost their wise men elder control of living fatherly in the presence of all children.

As parent instinct is to love all children as your own. And protect them mind and body.

So even if you were never a father sexually instinctively fatherly feelings not sexual should exist.

Cloistered life became the support of secret sex. Why jailed inmates procure the same.

Single jail cells locked were therefore instigated as human control no longer existed. To abstain. To accept unconditional love.

Why the pain of self flogging was involved. To remember why and to remember self control of thoughts.
 

1213

Well-Known Member
No one knows that. ...

Interesting, I thought only pedophiles think children are sexual. But, I think everyone can know personally was he/she him/herself sexual when children. Were you sexual when you were a small child, younger than 10?
 

firedragon

Veteran Member
Interesting, I thought only pedophiles think children are sexual.

Maybe pedophiles have a different understand of this word "sexual". So when you speak of sexuality they think of the word in some perverted manner. That cant be helped.

Were you sexual when you were a small child, younger than 10?

I think I will not mention this word "sexual" even in conjunction with another word with this avatar called "1213" anymore. Especially not when it comes to some sexual question asked from me personally.

So ciao.
 

Rival

Diex Aie
Staff member
Premium Member
Interesting, I thought only pedophiles think children are sexual. But, I think everyone can know personally was he/she him/herself sexual when children. Were you sexual when you were a small child, younger than 10?
I know this wasn't asked of me, but in general many children do learn to masturbate before 10. I don't know if you'd consider that as sexual in intent.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
Rival wrote: "Absolute as Victorian moral certainties appeared to be, they nonetheless permitted a great deal of ambiguity in matters romantic and sexual, even in the most respectable of families."

Queen Victoria's cousin, a daughter of the Grand Duke of Mecklenburg, had a baby out of wedlock. Her (the dau) close relatives disowned her and were very harsh to her. Despite her reputation for being a prude, Queen Victoria was very understanding and helpful. She was a joy to have around. She even spirited off the embarrassing offspring to Russia where it was raised in poverty, to avoid too much press about the scandal.

One must ask if such behavior is Christian. Shouldn't Christians treat all of God's children as God's children? Didn't Jesus intervene to save Mary Magdalene? Despite her kindnesses, Queen Victoria could have improved a lot.

I look at the way homosexuals are treated today, and think that Jesus would not have treated them this way. Again, they are God's children. It is not the role of a Christian to judge others, even if they exhibit behaviors contrary to the Christian faith.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
I know this wasn't asked of me, but in general many children do learn to masturbate before 10. I don't know if you'd consider that as sexual in intent.

Kids even younger than that sometimes trade peeks at each other, since they are curious about the hidden truth about the other gender. I don't think that behavior is sexual, it is merely education in physiology.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
I would have thought that the new view is the one that says human sexuality is fluid.
But what do you see as fluid. These days fluid can be very unstable, one in which someone can identify as a man one week and a woman the next and something else the next.
That said, mental sexuality does not always fit with biological sexuality and stereotypes for what is male or what is female are definitely out of place these days and that is becoming the case more and more.
Is there a like past which society has gone too far? I think so.
Is that line identifiable without a moral compass? Probably not. The line keeps moving as the morals of society keep moving.
Is it even a matter for morals to be involved with? Religions and moral compasses in societies of the past have definitely said yes and still do.
Should religions force their views onto everyone? Good question. Someone is going to be forcing their moral views onto us in law and religious people have a say also. But I'm for freedom,,,,,,,,,,and it is becoming increasingly more difficult to know where to draw a line on what freedoms should not be granted in law. In the future it no doubt will be science that does this even if science, by definition, has no moral views. Law making will become a methodologically naturalistic process.
Anyway I'm rambling and probably have not even answered what you were asking.

"Everthin's up to date in Kansas City....they've gone about as fer as they kin go."
 

Brian2

Veteran Member
"Everthin's up to date in Kansas City....they've gone about as fer as they kin go."

I doubt it is as far as it can be taken.
People dislike the sexual views given in the Bible and freedom dictates that people should be free to live as they want without harming others.
I don't think that Christians should force others to live as if they are Christians but that does mean that the sexual views and mores of others are forced onto society.
History has in general a taboo on sexual practice in most societies and now in the west this has been reversed and it will take time to see if there are negative consequences in the normalising of homosexual practice.
And of course even if there are negative consequences, will they even be recognised in a society which is taught that homosexuality is normal and fine and should be accepted by all. Everyone will be blind to any negative consequences.
Interesting times and I think societies will continue to shun Biblical morals into the future and because of the nature of the areas involved,,,,,,,,,,,euthanasia, homosexual freedoms, abortion etc it is and will be a hard thing for even Christians to make up their minds about and the principle of the slippery slope will operate and what looked outrageous to many in the past is normal now and what seems outrageous now will look normal in the future.
 

Brian2

Veteran Member
Imagine if all people were capable of being sexually attracted to all sexes and kinds of people, so instead the focus was on the sex act (sodomy, cunnilingus etc).

That's the quintessential view before the notion of homo and heterosexuality.

I'm sure the understanding that some people were exclusively same sex attracted was understood in the past, at least by some even if the focus may have been on the act when it came to laws.
Edit: But of course the idea that anyone can be sexually attracted to anyone has some truth in it and the idea of gender fluidity that is being pushed now in society and onto the young, will get more young people experimenting in that direction imo and more people becoming bisexual and from a religious pov having temptations to homosexual acts which they may not have had in a society where fluidity was not seen as the norm.
Leave the fluidity idea out of it all and leave homosexual acts for homosexuals imo and stop drawing the young into something they may not have bothered about.
But of course for what I will call radical homosexuals and some people who are just against the morality shown in the Bible, that is not an option and so the normalising of homosexuality will continue.
Freedom for and acceptance of homosexuals can proceed without gender fluidity theories being pushed.
Am I just getting old or is there something in what I said?
 
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1213

Well-Known Member
...Especially not when it comes to some sexual question asked from me personally.

Ok, sorry, it was too much asked. And also not important for me to know. But, I think anyone can think in own mind what is the answer. I think it can lead to understanding of how sexuality develops, is it something that person is born with, or is it something that develops.
 
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