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Same Sex Marrige By a Church.

MoonWater

Warrior Bard
Premium Member
only one of those is even close until it is put in context: Galataians 3:26-29 26You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, 27for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. 28There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. 29If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise.

the bulk of those passages speak of love and supporting love as being the highest command of god. Same-sex marriage and homosexuality are both forms of love just as opposite sex marriage and heterosexuality are. As such to condemn any of them or refuse to support any of them is to condemn or refuse to support a form of love, which the bible clearly says you should not do.
 

Smoke

Done here.
Can anyone show me doctrine (not interpretations and scholarly opinion) that allow a Christian church (bases off of the Bible) to marry a same sex couple?
Of course not. There is absolutely nothing in the Bible teaching that a Christian church may marry a same-sex couple. There isn't even anything in the Bible teaching that a Christian church may marry an opposite-sex couple. Paul talked about marriage between Christians, but never about marriage ceremonies being performed in church. In the early Church, and especially at the times the New Testament was written, Christians didn't get married in church. Most of them didn't even have civil marriages. They simply declared themselves married. The idea that any marriage should be performed in a church is unscriptural.

But then, the idea that Christianity should be based on the Bible is unscriptural, too. More than that -- it's impossible. The Church existed before the New Testament. A church that is based on the Bible cannot be the original church. It can't even be very much like the original Church. Bible-based churches are unscriptural.
 

Archer

Well-Known Member
agape love is what is referred to: selfless love of one person for another without sexual implications (especially love that is spiritual in nature)

Do you people think people are stupid or something?
 

Archer

Well-Known Member
Of course not. There is absolutely nothing in the Bible teaching that a Christian church may marry a same-sex couple. There isn't even anything in the Bible teaching that a Christian church may marry an opposite-sex couple. Paul talked about marriage between Christians, but never about marriage ceremonies being performed in church. In the early Church, and especially at the times the New Testament was written, Christians didn't get married in church. Most of them didn't even have civil marriages. They simply declared themselves married. The idea that any marriage should be performed in a church is unscriptural.

But then, the idea that Christianity should be based on the Bible is unscriptural, too. More than that -- it's impossible. The Church existed before the New Testament. A church that is based on the Bible cannot be the original church. It can't even be very much like the original Church. Bible-based churches are unscriptural.

Good points, but lacking.
 

MoonWater

Warrior Bard
Premium Member
agape love is what is referred to: selfless love of one person for another without sexual implications (especially love that is spiritual in nature)

Do you people think people are stupid or something?

no I don't. Do you think that just because two people are having sex that that automatically means it is not a relationship of "selfless love of one person for another" or that the love is not "spiritual in nature"?
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
or condoned or even where homosexuality is condoned. In context please not a one liner.
I'll take that as an "I can't find it either".

If your stance is that to take any position, you have to find explicit endorsement of it in the Bible, then show us the explicit endorsement of the prohibition of same-sex marriage.

If that isn't your stance, then why are you demanding that the other side meet a standard that you aren't willing to meet yourself?

The bible is explicitly against homosexuality!!! So I defer to the bible.
The Bible is also explicitly in favour of love... once again showing that it's the Big Book of Multiple Choice.

agape love is what is referred to: selfless love of one person for another without sexual implications (especially love that is spiritual in nature)
My agape love for homosexual people leads me to conclude that same-sex marriage is a good thing.
 

Just_me_Mike

Well-Known Member
Can anyone show me doctrine (not interpretations and scholarly opinion) that allow a Christian church (bases off of the Bible) to marry a same sex couple?

This is not about opinion it is about scripture only.
There is nothing specific in the bible, however what we do have is the fact we are all sinners and are going to make mistakes.

So the real question is, does a sinner that loves God find favor in God's eyes?

So if you are trying to imply marrying a gay couple is sin, than why should not that sin be treated any different than any other sin? I say live, love, and hope for the best...
 

challupa

Well-Known Member
So this was chopped liver I guess?
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]Romans 1:18-28 [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]18 The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]19 since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]20 For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature--have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]21 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]22 Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]24 Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]25 They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator--who is forever praised. Amen. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma,Arial,Helvetica]28 Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done.[/FONT]

[FONT=arial, helvetica]Leviticus 18:22 is translated: "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."[/FONT]
So a bunch of Jews didn't like homosexuals or their activity. That doesn't mean we should do what they do. Two wrongs don't make a right. Condemning others is also a no no in the bible. Why ignore that piece of advice?
 

Archer

Well-Known Member
Again I will say this IS THERE A PRECEDENT IN THE BIBLE that can justify marring a homosexual couple! Take the entire new testament in context and you will find there is no way for a church to condone such activity.

Understand the love that is being spoken of. It is not the same as a husband for a wife. End of sentence there is nothing.
 

blackout

Violet.
Understand the love that is being spoken of. It is not the same as a husband for a wife. End of sentence there is nothing.

You have no grasp of anything that goes on in a relationship model other than your own.

You may think you do, but you don't.

You have absolutely no idea the depth of love and meaning there.

Love... is love.
in varied degrees.

There is not "heterosexual" love, and "homosexual" love.

There is deep love... there is shallow love...
There is firey love... there is frigid love...
There is vibrant love... there is dull love...

Intense, wonderful love can be shared in any relationship model.
REAL PEOPLE will tell you that.

But the testimony of their lives count for nothing against your chosen doctrine.

 

Archer

Well-Known Member
Put up or shut up. No scripture no point.

This is the love spoken of, agape: selfless love of one person for another without sexual implications (especially love that is spiritual in nature)
 

blackout

Violet.
Put up or shut up. No scripture no point.

This is the love spoken of, agape: selfless love of one person for another without sexual implications (especially love that is spiritual in nature)

Yes. There is a point.

The point is that people share the fullness of their lives... and persons together...
in the deepest experiences of love... expressed sexually and otherwise...
and you pretend to invalidate the legitimacy of their relationship
on account of a book.

You actually can find TRUTH IN LIFE.
And in the testimonies of actual people.
 

gnomon

Well-Known Member
Again I will say this IS THERE A PRECEDENT IN THE BIBLE that can justify marring a homosexual couple! Take the entire new testament in context and you will find there is no way for a church to condone such activity.

Understand the love that is being spoken of. It is not the same as a husband for a wife. End of sentence there is nothing.

I do know this.

The Bible does not show any precedent for marrying intersex individuals.

The Bible does not show any precedent for not marrying intersex individuals.

Find explicit Bible passages dealing with intersex then get back to us. Many of us have been on this forum for years so there's time to look for it.
 

McBell

Unbound
Again I will say this IS THERE A PRECEDENT IN THE BIBLE that can justify marring a homosexual couple! Take the entire new testament in context and you will find there is no way for a church to condone such activity.

Understand the love that is being spoken of. It is not the same as a husband for a wife. End of sentence there is nothing.

Please be so kind as to present the verse that commands that same sex couples are not to be married.
 

McBell

Unbound
Put up or shut up. No scripture no point.

This is the love spoken of, agape: selfless love of one person for another without sexual implications (especially love that is spiritual in nature)

does this also apply to this post?
If so, since you did not present any scripture, the above quoted post is worthless, right?
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
Please be so kind as to present the verse that commands that same sex couples are not to be married.
Maybe you'll have better luck. I haven't decided yet whether he can't read this question when it comes from me or he can't read it at all.
 

challupa

Well-Known Member
Paul is not differentiating between homosexual acts committed by heterosexual people and actual homosexuals. He is condemning those who are heterosexual that commit homosexual acts because it went against their nature. No where does he condemn a homosexual for having homosexual activity. When Paul talks about going against their natural desires that is what he is condemning. For a homosexual to go against their natural desire to be with the same sex and try to become heterosexual would be exactly what Paul was condemning because it wouldn't be natural for them.

It is not clear in any way that homosexual activity between homosexuals was frowned upon. Also, there is not much said about what the church could do or not do as far as marriage went. When these gospels were written there wasn't an actual church to write about. Christians weren't even Christians yet. That came later.
 
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