Lightkeeper
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What do you usually do on Saturday Night?
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Lightkeeper said:What do you usually do on Saturday Night?
Hey, ya never know! I made out in a car for the first time ever last year (I was 27). :flirt: It was worth the wait...Gerani1248 said:sigh. when can I have saturday nights to make out in the car with a forbidden lover? sigh, never in the next 30 years.
Is that what you're doing now? Waiting for your mom to fall asleep?Ceridwen018 said:I usually go out with friends. I gotta make curfew at 12 am, but then it's just a matter of waiting 'till my mom's asleep before I sneak back out. The first time I ever snuck out of my house, I went to see Mr. Spinkles and I was SOOOO nervous my mom would check on me and find me gone, but I was victorious. I still have yet to be caught, but that doesn't mean I've become lax in caution!!
What if there were some kind of accident or occurence that kept you from returning home? All relationships are based on trust.Ceridwen018 said:I usually go out with friends. I gotta make curfew at 12 am, but then it's just a matter of waiting 'till my mom's asleep before I sneak back out. The first time I ever snuck out of my house, I went to see Mr. Spinkles and I was SOOOO nervous my mom would check on me and find me gone, but I was victorious. I still have yet to be caught, but that doesn't mean I've become lax in caution!!
No, not tonight. I have to get up early tomorrow morning.Is that what you're doing now? Waiting for your mom to fall asleep?
Well Lightkeeper...there's nothing I can really say to that. It is absolutely possible that something could happen which would keep me from returning home, or which would alert my mother that I was gone, (such as getting a speeding ticket with the time marked 3am--that happened to my friend's sister), and it is certain that if my mother ever found out, she would impale me...but I don't know. I just feel like I only live once, you know? And when the choices are to either be a good little girl and go to bed, or disobey my mother and go out with friends...well for me, there's not really any choice. I totally understand that trust is necessary for any relationship, and my mother (if she knew) could trust that when I go out, I'm not going to do anything illegal or dangerous. Also, trust has to go both ways--that's all I'm going to say about that, but if my mom were straight with me all the time, I might think differently. I'm just speculating here, but if she did find out and I did therefore break her trust, what difference would it make? I would still probably find a way to sneak out...the way I see it really, though, is that she really doesn't trust me as it is, even though she has no knowledge of anything I've done. I guess that's part of the teenage burden, but I figure if I'm to be treated like I'm untrustworthy, I may as well not suffer for nothing. Wow I'm really rambling here! Ok, back on topic!What if there were some kind of accident or occurence that kept you from returning home? All relationships are based on trust.
This doesn't seem like something someone would do on Saturday night or any night of the week that cares about themself. There is a lot of danger in it.Ceridwen018 said:No, not tonight. I have to get up early tomorrow morning.
Well Lightkeeper...there's nothing I can really say to that. It is absolutely possible that something could happen which would keep me from returning home, or which would alert my mother that I was gone, (such as getting a speeding ticket with the time marked 3am--that happened to my friend's sister), and it is certain that if my mother ever found out, she would impale me...but I don't know. I just feel like I only live once, you know? And when the choices are to either be a good little girl and go to bed, or disobey my mother and go out with friends...well for me, there's not really any choice. I totally understand that trust is necessary for any relationship, and my mother (if she knew) could trust that when I go out, I'm not going to do anything illegal or dangerous. Also, trust has to go both ways--that's all I'm going to say about that, but if my mom were straight with me all the time, I might think differently. I'm just speculating here, but if she did find out and I did therefore break her trust, what difference would it make? I would still probably find a way to sneak out...the way I see it really, though, is that she really doesn't trust me as it is, even though she has no knowledge of anything I've done. I guess that's part of the teenage burden, but I figure if I'm to be treated like I'm untrustworthy, I may as well not suffer for nothing. Wow I'm really rambling here! Ok, back on topic!
I stopped sneaking out of the house when I was four. I learned early.Mr_Spinkles said:Apparently, Lightkeeper wasn't born until well after the age of 18.
Saturday nights...well, last night I saw Jay Leno with my mom for parents weekend here, and then she went home and I went to a frat party.
EXACTLY!! I can't explain it, but I have this insatiable craving for ADVENTURE!! Woohoo!There is a lot of danger in it.
Sunstone, don't encourage me!Personally, I'm glad that Ceridwen shows some spirit! I'd probably fret for her if she was "too good".
Just call me "corrupter of youth". But if you get caught, then whatever else you do, Ceridwen, don't tell your mother I said your sneaking out showed admirable spirit --- I have enough problems without an irrate mother looking for me with a shotgun.Ceridwen018 said:Sunstone, don't encourage me!