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Sex for food ?

michel

Administrator Emeritus
Staff member
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/4983440.stm

Liberia sex-for-aid 'widespread'

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Young girls are the most vulnerable

Young girls in Liberia are still being sexually exploited by aid workers and peacekeepers despite pledges to stamp out such abuse, Save the Children says.
Girls as young as eight are being forced to have sex in exchange for food by workers for local and international agencies, according to its report.
The agency says such abuse is continuing as people displaced by the civil war return to their villages.
The UN in Liberia said it would investigate specific allegations.
The United Nations promised to put safeguards in place after sexual abuse in the refugee camps of West Africa was first revealed four years ago.
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This cannot continue - it must be tackled


Jasmine Whitbread
Save the Children





But a study by Save the Children, which involved speaking to more than 300 people in camps for people displaced by the war, found that abuse was still widespread.
The report said that all of the respondents clearly stated that more than half of the girls in their locations were affected.
Girls from the age of eight to 18 years were being sold for sex, "commonly referred to as 'man business'," the report noted.
'Clear priority'
One 20-year-old woman told the BBC that she had been forced to have sex with a worker for the World Food Programme (WFP).
"This young man had been doing it to most of my friends. And the children too don't have strong minds. They will have sex with him to get the food," Konah Brown said.
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The image of UN peacekeepers in West Africa has suffered


But government officials and teachers are also contributing to the abuse, Save the Children says.
Teachers have demanded sex in lieu of school fees, or even just to give good grades, the report found.
"This cannot continue. It must be tackled," said Jasmine Whitbread, Save the Children's UK Chief Executive.
"Men who use positions of power to take advantage of vulnerable children must be reported and fired.
"More must be done to support children and their families to make a living without turning to this kind of desperation."
The WFP's Greg Barrow said the organisation would be taking the latest allegations with "the greatest seriousness" and was already taking steps to investigate them.
"The key here is to find what link in this chain of delivering food, and getting it to the people who need it, is perhaps abusing this position," he told the BBC.
The UN's Humanitarian Co-ordinator in Liberia, Jordan Ryan, also said specific allegations would be investigated.
"Unfortunately not all international NGOs have taken it seriously. But it is a clear priority," he said. "We have never done enough until there's a zero case load. Has enough been done? Not yet. Are we working on it? You bet we are."
 

Krie

Member
i would try to hide from it all and try to make my life on my own rather than hurting my soul for my body
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
The sexual abuse and exploitation of girls is outrageous on many grounds, not the least being that it can have (and typically does have) devastating consequences not only for its victims, but for all who know and love them, now or later in their lives. When it is widespread, we all become victims, directly or indirectly of it. And today it is reaching epidemic proportions in many societies world wide.

The sexual abuse and exploitation of even one child is a huge evil and it is dismaying and shocking that when it happens to many children, it becomes accepted as commonplace and even written off as "merely a part of life". Few things, IMO, are more stupid than writting off sexual abuse. It victimizes us all, it is a world wide epidemic, and it must be opposed, even at great cost. For the greater cost to all of us is to allow it to run rampant.

I applaud that Save the Children is persistantly on top of this problem in Liberia. For anyone interested, Save the Children is a charity that accepts donations. Here's their website:

http://www.savethechildren.org/?stationpub=ggstc&WT.srch=1&WT.mc_id=gg
 

Terrywoodenpic

Oldest Heretic
It is interesting in a rather nasty way, that the innocent are usually taken advantage of in this way, both during and after wars.
Much the same happened in Germany after the second word war.
It was a question of we have the cash... what can you give me??? in return.
Young girls and women only had one thing.

Terry______________________
Amen! Truly I say to you: Gather in my name. I am with you.
 

michel

Administrator Emeritus
Staff member
Circle_One said:
I think castrated would be a nice start, but not the end of the punishment.

So what else would you advocate, as well as castration?
 

Buttercup

Veteran Member
Urg...another story to make me weary of human beings and the crappy way we treat each other.

Of course I agree with everyone else that the perpetrators need to be caught and jailed....if that can be accomplished.

Fortunately the vast majority of people are there for good, not harm.
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
iMHO, the best approach to the problem in the long run might be to do what has to be done to lift these societies out of poverty. It's just common sense tht the girls would not be nearly so vulnerable to exchanging food for sex if they had food. Of course, wealth by itself wouldn't solve the whole problem: rape and molestation are going to occur even in wealthy societies unless the society decides to vigorously do something about it. But getting these girls out of poverty would pay off in so many ways that it's a worthwhile goal, even if doesn't entirely solve the problem of sexual abuse.
 

Fluffy

A fool
I see no problem passing the misery on to those who are helping cause it.

I have no problem with it either. I do see causing suffering simply to cause suffering as pointless at best and counter productive at worst, however. Causing suffering to prevent further suffering... well go for it.

Hmmmm I wonder if you could volunteer to become a sort of "watch-dog" for these organisations and make sure that these kinds of abuses are stamped out at a local level and those responsible, brought to justice.
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
Fluffy said:
Hmmmm I wonder if you could volunteer to become a sort of "watch-dog" for these organisations and make sure that these kinds of abuses are stamped out at a local level and those responsible, brought to justice.

I admire you for even considering the idea, Fluffy. I hope you get a yes to it. Frubals!
 

lunamoth

Will to love
Fluffy said:
Hmmmm I wonder if you could volunteer to become a sort of "watch-dog" for these organisations and make sure that these kinds of abuses are stamped out at a local level and those responsible, brought to justice.

That is a great idea Fluffy. Would it really be so hard to put children's advocates in place wherever other humanitarian aid is offered? I would hope we don't reduce ourselves to vengence, but these children (and women) must be protected and the offenders removed from where they can do so much harm. It's also time and man-power intensive, but I would hope that the offenders could somehow be made to help 'fix' the mess they made. Not that they should be allowed anywhere near the people they harm, but there' a lot of grunt-work involved in feeding people. Rather than castration or jail, (and oohh, the idea of castration is all so tempting, how often it occurs to me as an effective solution, but it is not the right choice) how about a little (or lot) of time digging wells and cleaning out cow barns in those developing countries...

2c,
lunamoth
 

SunMessenger

Catholic
Young girls in Liberia are still being sexually exploited by aid workers and peacekeepers despite pledges to stamp out such abuse, Save the Children says.
Girls as young as eight are being forced to have sex in exchange for food by workers for local and international agencies, according to its report.
The agency says such abuse is continuing as people displaced by the civil war return to their villages.
The UN in Liberia said it would investigate specific allegations.
The United Nations promised to put safeguards in place after sexual abuse in the refugee camps of West Africa was first revealed four years ago.
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This cannot continue - it must be tackled

If any organization has personal knowledge of specific incidents and does not take action to curtail it there in is evidence of complicity. It is so easy to come with this broad statement. In order to have drawn this conclusion a reasonable person would assume that they have substantiated information of crimes being committed. Since it is claimed that these incidents are being perpetrated by workers of respectable organization then my question is why haven't the agencies involved not been reported for their lack of action. My question is void of any comment on punishment since they have not even begun the prosecution yet, according to this article. Wake up because either this article is false or someone really may be hiding a very serious situation that is within their power to stop. Not very Christian Like to have knowledge of harm and push it away and not take appropriate action within ones power to stop it. Interesting and at the same time very troubling. I will pray for them and I wish you well...
 
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