I absolutely agree with you. Transgression is caused by repression.Joke:
Why don't Baptists make love standing up?
Because someone might think they are dancing!
Now I have your attention, I'll proceed.
I think it's true that anything that is forbidden becomes interesting and attractive, especially to young people. So yes, if sex is forbidden and/or hidden behind veils of cultural prohibition, people will want to find out what the fuss is all about. At the other end of the scale, if something is totally open and allowed, people may have an initial interest, but that fades as it proves to be not so interesting after all. Somewhere there is a balance, but unfortunately homo sap. seems to be very bad at finding cultural balances.
I understand...because there is the absolute mechanism we can find in Freud's Totem and Taboo.This has been a perennial interest of mine, and I fall towards the "open" end of the scale. As an example, in discussions about sex education I have advocated teaching sexual technique (how to give pleasure to your partner) and I typically get "shock horror" even from strong advocates of sex ed. Why? It would be of great benefit to sexual "beginners". Let's see what the reaction is here.
It's a work that explains how the totem is needed even in the most advanced societies like ours. But we can get rid of all this stuff.
Excellent.My position is that sex is a lot of fun and it is a great shame that people don't get to enjoy it fully because of societal attitudes. Once that is achieved, there's no need to go on about it any more than any other enjoyable activity, that as much as an individual wants to and his/her friends will put up with. Have you thought that a good 90% of popular music is about sex/romance, at one level or another? That's altogether more than the subject deserves. Advertising with sexual images? How much impact would there be if everyone was comfortable in their sexuality?
But it's more deeper than that. That people's psyche depends on a healthy sexuality. And we can have perfectly functioning societies by taking care of people's well-being that includes their sexuality and sex life too.
Evil comes from an unhealthy use of sex, and from an unhealthy vision of sex.
Unfortunately Freud has been vilified by prudes and other bigots, but he has explained it very clearly.
In this thread I have never used profanity."Profanity" has been mentioned. Who cares, seriously. Words are vibrations in the air that are used to convey information. Why forbid the use of some of them? Try this. "Plondite" is a word I made up. You don't know what it means. Is it offensive? Of course not. Now I'll tell you that it refers to anal sex. Ooooh! Don't say it! But it's the same word that it was before, when you didn't think it was offensive.
Honestly I couldn't care less about profanity. All that I want is to explain how people better themselves and societies improve whenever they have a satisfying and a healthy sex life.
Wars would disappear, hatred and divisions would terminate.
Just because of a psychological revolution that normalizes sex. That's my theory.