She only texts!

[Unveiled Artist]

Have you started making a new friend towards dating then realize even though she hangs out in person, she (or he) never calls you just texts?

What is up with that?

Are you the victim? How did you handle it?

Are you the texter? Why text 99% or the time and stay om the phone 1% (not exagerating).

We clicked at first.
Then her father had a heart attack
She got sick
She had to put her rats to sleep given they got cancer
She got sick
She broke her toe
Her best friend died in a car accident (the funeral ia this sat. She wanted me to come)
Her other friend overdosed on pills and dies of suicide.

All of this within two months and a half.

She is good at being on time.
She does cancel a lot.

Even as just friends, what is your view of this situation and why only texting? I cant support her by text. I told her this. Nothing more I can do?

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Something smells fishy, and the texting is the least of it.

Somebody who has that many excuses is usually making some or all of them up.

 

[Iti oj]

What's wrong with texting?

 

[David1967]

Have you started making a new friend towards dating then realize even though she hangs out in person, she (or he) never calls you just texts?

What is up with that?

Are you the victim? How did you handle it?

Are you the texter? Why text 99% or the time and stay om the phone 1% (not exagerating).

We clicked at first.
Then her father had a heart attack
She got sick
She had to put her rats to sleep given they got cancer
She got sick
She broke her toe
Her best friend died in a car accident (the funeral ia this sat. She wanted me to come)
Her other friend overdosed on pills and dies of suicide.

All of this within two months and a half.

She is good at being on time.
She does cancel a lot.

Even as just friends, what is your view of this situation and why only texting? I cant support her by text. I told her this. Nothing more I can do?

Sounds like she is going through a lot. I would be patient with her and let her deal with her personal loss and such in her own way. Everyone copes with these things differently. Perhaps she just doesn't feel like talking right now and is more comfortable texting.

 

[Nakosis]

Have you started making a new friend towards dating then realize even though she hangs out in person, she (or he) never calls you just texts?

What is up with that?

Are you the victim? How did you handle it?

Are you the texter? Why text 99% or the time and stay om the phone 1% (not exagerating).

We clicked at first.
Then her father had a heart attack
She got sick
She had to put her rats to sleep given they got cancer
She got sick
She broke her toe
Her best friend died in a car accident (the funeral ia this sat. She wanted me to come)
Her other friend overdosed on pills and dies of suicide.

All of this within two months and a half.

She is good at being on time.
She does cancel a lot.

Even as just friends, what is your view of this situation and why only texting? I cant support her by text. I told her this. Nothing more I can do?

I suspect Texters live in a different world. Texting is immediate, almost psychically intimate interaction between some folks who'll simply not be able to comprehend your concern.

Texting

 

[Unveiled Artist]

Sounds like she is going through a lot. I would be patient with her and let her deal with her personal loss and such in her own way. Everyone copes with these things differently. Perhaps she just doesn't feel like talking right now and is more comfortable texting.

True. I do want to support her but cant through texting. When you go through a lot you tend to lean toward someone you beginning to love as well. I dont want it to seem as if Im isolating her but then she has a lot and I emotionally cant handle it all unless we work together.

At least thats what I know of friendships. Of coursex like you say, not everyones alike. True.

 

[Unveiled Artist]

Something smells fishy, and the texting is the least of it.

Somebody who has that many excuses is usually making some or all of them up.

I thought about that too. I brushed it off the first couple of times because I noticed she still met me in person and takes me out from time to time. But there is also a background with her. I told her she may not be ready for a relationship. But I do sense some flags even if non intentional. Dont know how to address it but since I told her lets be friends, I figure not to right now. My family says that type of friendship can weigh me down.

 

[Unveiled Artist]

What's wrong with texting?

In and of itselfx nothing. I think we talked on the phone for less than thirty minutes once in two months. We talked less than a minute when she called to say she arrived at my place.

Weird thing is, she accidently called the wrong number. I answered and she said sorry I didnt mean to call you.

 

[Skwim]

Have you started making a new friend towards dating then realize even though she hangs out in person, she (or he) never calls you just texts?

What is up with that?

Are you the victim? How did you handle it?

Are you the texter? Why text 99% or the time and stay om the phone 1% (not exagerating).

We clicked at first.
Then her father had a heart attack
She got sick
She had to put her rats to sleep given they got cancer
She got sick
She broke her toe
Her best friend died in a car accident (the funeral ia this sat. She wanted me to come)
Her other friend overdosed on pills and dies of suicide.

All of this within two months and a half.

She is good at being on time.
She does cancel a lot.

Even as just friends, what is your view of this situation and why only texting? I cant support her by text. I told her this. Nothing more I can do?

My suspicion:

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