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Should I really

TagliatelliMonster

Veteran Member
Yeah and what website is this where you are seeing this?
Yes. No more then a couple of days ago, by one of our resident regular muslim posters.

I've seen some Christians here who have [posted nonsensical indirect violent posts with no retribution but that is neither here nor there.

In all honesty, I know of only a handful regular muslim posters here.
Of them, only 1 - which I shall name: @Conscious thoughts - seems to me to be a peace loving, tolerant and friendly guy.

The others are extremely arrogant, suffer from severe superiority complexes, are incredibly rude in their passive aggressiveness and extremely hostile and dripping with intolerance in most of the stuff they post.

While there some christians like that on here as well, the vast majority are not like that.
This is just an honest observation from my part.
I'll also note that this is not my experience at all with muslims I meet in real life.

Nobody. However in my 39 years of existing on this planet with also 20 plus years on the internet people tend to make stuff up because they may dislike a religion, basketball team, dodge ball team and the like. You're making generalizations which aren't true of Islam nor of all Muslims. Like I said I've seen more hatred come from so-called Christians than Muslims on and off the internet.

:rolleyes:


Half my family are muslim. I grew up with them and lived with them for the past 41 years of existing on this planet. Through them, I also met loads of other muslims. Including several imams with whom I had conversations. I have much more experience (in real life) talking to actual muslims and imams then I have talking with christians and pastors (about religion, that is).

My main point though...... there is no such thing as a "true muslim". Just like there is no such thing as a "true christian". For the word "true" to have any meaning in such a sentence, one would have to have an objective set of criteria. Such a set does not exist.

So in instead of "true christians", there are only "christians" of several denominations and sub-cultures. The same goes for muslims.

A protestant isn't any more or less of a "christian" then a catholic.
Muslims aren't any different.
 

Epic Beard Man

Bearded Philosopher
Yes. No more then a couple of days ago, by one of our resident regular muslim posters.

So one regular poster equates to the whole of Islam and Muslims. You've got to do better than that. You've declared yourself an atheist. I've met plenty of racist atheists in my time at 39 years-old, imagine I judge anyone with a disbelief in God or gods as racist because of the plenty encounters I have had with atheists.

In all honesty, I know of only a handful regular muslim posters here.
Of them, only 1 - which I shall name: @Conscious thoughts - seems to me to be a peace loving, tolerant and friendly guy.

The others are extremely arrogant, suffer from severe superiority complexes, are incredibly rude in their passive aggressiveness and extremely hostile and dripping with intolerance in most of the stuff they post.

I find Muslims at least majority I've encountered to be very defensive of Islam because they have to be. Plenty of atheists and Christians (and some Jews) that bombard Muslim websites with hateful rhetoric post 9-11. You guys are no different than the Muslims you complain about because I've seen an exchange of hate go both ways.

While there some christians like that on here as well, the vast majority are not like that.
This is just an honest observation from my part.

Interesting. I've seen some combative Christians on here antagonizing Muslims. Maybe our radar didn't pick it up because of an internal bias against Islam you have in your cognition. It is easy to overlook a display of hatred against Muslims when your own biases block you from seeing the wrong in others. If no Muslim has displayed hatred of combative attitudes towards you in real life you shouldn't be on the internet especially discussion forums making generalizations of what YOU DIDN'T SEE EXPERIENCE IN YOUR OWN LIFE outside the forum. As I've mentioned previously, I've met some hateful atheists in my time (well hateful people period) but clearly I do not think atheism as a belief/philosophy is the culprit of the attitudes of the people I've encountered, rather it is the individuals themselves. But certainly I wouldn't make an effort to demonize Muslims. What @Conscious thoughts said was wrong and I'm sure his beliefs is the result of what he has seen on the internet (and maybe in real life).

Speaking on anecdotes I went to the store for my neighbor who smokes cigarettes and a Muslim family owns smoke shop down the street from my house. They always greet me with As'Salaamu Alaikum and ask me how I'm doing. I've never worried about them asking me to convert or tell me hatreful things about my belief. Worse thing they've done was offer me a copy of the Qur'an and said no more (Far from a people associated with Daaesch e.g. "Islamic State").

Half my family are muslim. I grew up with them and lived with them for the past 41 years of existing on this planet. Through them, I also met loads of other muslims. Including several imams with whom I had conversations. I have much more experience (in real life) talking to actual muslims and imams then I have talking with christians and pastors (about religion, that is).

Ok yet out of the 41 years of existing on this planet no Muslim has harmed you because of your lack of faith unlike what you're insinuating here.

My main point though...... there is no such thing as a "true muslim". Just like there is no such thing as a "true christian". For the word "true" to have any meaning in such a sentence, one would have to have an objective set of criteria. Such a set does not exist.

The observation of truth can have a subjective presentation when one is observing behavior. If I observe and judge someone based on the principles of their faith and their obligations as someone who observe their laws then surely I'll base their behavior upon the rules of their religion. If I meet a Muslim who prays five times a day, goes to Jummah, pays the charitable tax rate, believes in One God, angels, Djinn etc and is consistent and is just a down to earth person I observe their religious "trueness" based off their behavior in comparison to the destructive behavior that I see with people of the Taliban or Islamic state or any other Muslim.

So in instead of "true christians", there are only "christians" of several denominations and sub-cultures. The same goes for muslims.

A protestant isn't any more or less of a "christian" then a catholic.
Muslims aren't any different.

Like I said observable "trueness" can be subjective just as someone who proclaims a cop to be "good" because they point out bad cops. We make these inferences everyday by referring to someone as "good" or "true" to their nature because we observe the qualities they display.
 

Starlight

Spiritual but not religious, new age and omnist
I know of no such thing, but thank you for demonstrating again how you really are. Kind of like the shias. Constantly flattering and claiming some kind of love and affection to random people in hopes they accept your religion which you don't supposedly think is the true religion, just right for you.

Sufism is not Islam, your kinds of sufis are probably further from Islam than many Christians and Jews.
You are wrong. Sufism is Islam
 

TagliatelliMonster

Veteran Member
So one regular poster equates to the whole of Islam and Muslims.

I did not say that at all.

You've got to do better than that.

No. YOU are going to have to do better. For starters, you could not put words in my mouth.

I find Muslims at least majority I've encountered to be very defensive of Islam because they have to be. Plenty of atheists and Christians (and some Jews) that bombard Muslim websites with hateful rhetoric post 9-11. You guys are no different than the Muslims you complain about because I've seen an exchange of hate go both ways.

"you guys"? Who are you talking about?

Alos, I notice you explicitly removed this sentence from my post:

I'll also note that this is not my experience at all with muslims I meet in real life.

Why?


Interesting. I've seen some combative Christians on here antagonizing Muslims. Maybe our radar didn't pick it up because of an internal bias against Islam you have in your cognition. It is easy to overlook a display of hatred against Muslims when your own biases block you from seeing the wrong in others.

No. I'm talking in %.
From the total set, from my observation, a smaller portion of the christians include "hostilities" in their postings- in general, not just towards any particular group.

Once more: this is just my observation on this very limited and not-representative population on RF.
Only a handful of muslims post here as well, so the sample set is far to small anyway to take any kind of meaningful stat from it.


If no Muslim has displayed hatred of combative attitudes towards you in real life you shouldn't be on the internet especially discussion forums making generalizations of what YOU DIDN'T SEE EXPERIENCE IN YOUR OWN LIFE outside the forum.

I'm not making any generalizations. That's what you made of it.
That's on you, not me.

As I've mentioned previously, I've met some hateful atheists in my time (well hateful people period) but clearly I do not think atheism as a belief/philosophy is the culprit of the attitudes of the people I've encountered, rather it is the individuals themselves

That would be obvious, since there is no such thing as "atheist belief" or "philosophy".
There is nothing in atheism that promotes any kind of belief or behavior, since atheism is explicitly the lack of certain specific philosophies that do such a thing.

HOWEVER, this is not the case in theism. Theism DOES come with sets of doctrines, beliefs and philosophies, which ultimately translate into behavior.

And when we look at the actual statistics... we can see that violent and hostile militia's are vastly more common in Islam as opposed to christianity. Even more worrying imo, is the stats of those that are not part of those violent circles, but who sympathize with them or who, instead of flat out condemning them, only condemn them followed by a "but....."

If you add them up, you end up with very disturbing numbers. Still minorities, sure, but nevertheless numbering in the 100 million worldwide. Certainly not the majority, but far too big a minority to just brush aside like that. There's too much of it to simply not even ask the question what it is in or about Islam that promotes or motivates such behavior or mindset.

Speaking on anecdotes I went to the store for my neighbor who smokes cigarettes and a Muslim family owns smoke shop down the street from my house. They always greet me with As'Salaamu Alaikum and ask me how I'm doing. I've never worried about them asking me to convert or tell me hatreful things about my belief. Worse thing they've done was offer me a copy of the Qur'an and said no more (Far from a people associated with Daaesch e.g. "Islamic State").

Cool. So?
I already told you everything you need to know about my opinion about that, but you choose to ignore that sentence and didn't even include it in your quoting. It kind of undermines your entire accusation at my address.


Ok yet out of the 41 years of existing on this planet no Muslim has harmed you because of your lack of faith unlike what you're insinuating here.

Not me. Several hundreds of others, yes.
Some of the guys I have known over the years include Salah Abdeslam and his buddy Abdelhamid Abaoud. I'm in fact pretty sure I bought weed from him through a middle guy.

Then there's also Fouad Belkacem with his "Shariah4Belgium" from Antwerp, where he was hanging out with his "recruits" whom he convinced to go to Syria.

This is the crew that came back from Syria and killed hundreds in Paris and Brussels.

When I knew Salah and Abdelhamid, they weren't radicals though. They were insignificant street thugs who loved to party. Great fun to be around when you're a kid. They don't give a f... about anything. But no good can come of it, off course.

Then they radicalized. There is no doubt that their fundamentalist islamic beliefs is what motivated them to do what they did. I wasn't around anymore to witness what it did with them, but I was around in Antwerp when Belkacem was doing his thing. Everybody knew it was bad news. Unfortunately, most didn't see in time just how bad it was going to get.

The observation of truth can have a subjective presentation when one is observing behavior. If I observe and judge someone based on the principles of their faith and their obligations as someone who observe their laws then surely I'll base their behavior upon the rules of their religion.

In that case, Salah Abdeslam and Abdelhamid Abaoud, were "true muslims", as they absolutely observed the principles of their faith.

@Conscious thoughts by the same token is a "true muslim" as well, as he to observes the principles of his faith.

If I meet a Muslim who prays five times a day, goes to Jummah, pays the charitable tax rate, believes in One God, angels, Djinn etc and is consistent and is just a down to earth person I observe their religious "trueness" based off their behavior in comparison to the destructive behavior that I see with people of the Taliban or Islamic state or any other Muslim.

Sounds to me that what you are calling a "true muslim" here, doesn't amount to much more then that which you like better.

A taliban dude might call the person you refer to as a "true muslim", a "kafir", because he congregates and makes friends with the enemies of islam.

Like I said observable "trueness" can be subjective just as someone who proclaims a cop to be "good" because they point out bad cops. We make these inferences everyday by referring to someone as "good" or "true" to their nature because we observe the qualities they display.

Then that is just a subjective opinion.
 

Starlight

Spiritual but not religious, new age and omnist
This isn't about telling someone "you are a disbeliever", but about acknowledging that disbelievers are disbelievers. For instance, denying that Christians are disbelievers.
Conscious thoughts is a sufi muslim. He is a believer in Islam

It is wrong of you to say to other muslims that they are disbelievers
 

danieldemol

Veteran Member
Premium Member
You're Baha'i we have been through this before. Obviously Islam has truth in it considering your faith is an extension of Islam. Although considered heterodoxy, your faith is definitely an extension of Islam so indirectly by talking about Islam you thereby are in actuality talking about aspects of your faith.
I'm not a Baha'i, so obviously we need to go through this again.
 

Truthseeker

Non-debating member when I can help myself
Sufism is less a doctrine or a belief system than an experience and way of life. It is a tradition of enlightenment that carries the essential truth forward through time. Tradition, however, must be conceived in a vital and dynamic sense. Its expression must not remain limited to the religious and cultural forms of the past. The truth of Sufism requires reformulation and fresh expression in every age.
More power to you! I understand that there are Shi'i and Sunni Sufis and the expression of Sufi varies among different people. Sufi transcends any school or sect of Islam is my understanding. It is an way of approaching God or Allah. Correct me if I'm wrong.
 

Truthseeker

Non-debating member when I can help myself
How about the freedom of choice to believe what you want?
Let there be no compulsion in Religion. Now is the right way made distinct from error.
Muhammad, "The Qur'an", 2.259

Maybe it is time to look within our self and ask.

How am i as a human being? Am i doing thing things i should do?

Why am i complaining on others if i can not even be good my self.

And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.
Matthew, "The Gospel of Matthew - ευαγγέλιο του Ματθαίου", 7:3

O Son of Being! How couldst thou forget thine own faults and busy thyself with the faults of others? Whoso doeth this is accursed of Me.
Bahá’u’lláh, "The Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh", a26
 
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firedragon

Veteran Member
Sorry, Wikipedia wasn't around when I was in kindergarten.

While it took some heat as not being the most reliable source at its onset, it is now considered by most to be a valid source of information.

Would you like to discount Britannica as well?

Sufism, mystical Islamic belief and practice in which Muslims seek to find the truth of divine love and knowledge through direct personal experience of God. It consists of a variety of mystical paths that are designed to ascertain the nature of humanity and of God and to facilitate the experience of the presence of divine love and wisdom in the world.
Sufism | Definition, History, Beliefs, Significance, & Facts

Because I was taught soon after kindergarten that Britannica was a "proper source."

Haha. I appreciate the sarcasm.

This is a sectarian issue. I think you are absolutely right and your research is valid.

There was a man called Gazali who you probably know of. He is very well known to be from the Sufi order. Sunnis accept and affirm that he was a Sunni. Some call him a polymath. There are many people who like to call themselves the heaven bound and wish to damn others so they impose their personal ego and superiority complexes upon the theology.

This sectarian strife, though has been existing for some time, is emphasised now more than ever. So you will hear a lot of it.
 

Spirit of Light

Be who ever you want
Whatever happens in your life, no matter how troubling things might seem, do not enter the neighbourhood of despair.
Even when all doors remain closed, God wil open up a new path only for you. Be thankful! It is easy to be thankful when all is well. A Sufi is thankful not only for what he has been given but also for all that has been denied.

Elif Shafak

The words of Elif Shafak has a deep meaning to me :) to never give up no matter what or who tries to stop you. But always be thankful to Allah
 

Shakeel

Well-Known Member
ISIS, Al-qaida, Boko Haram are all terror groups and there should not be a need to name them, it is often in the news about them doing evil deeds
There is a need when you speak vaguely I'm sure you don't mean just them, but you don't have the guts to say what you mean. But we all get the point, don't worry.
 

Shakeel

Well-Known Member
Yes, Quran tells who is a believer and who is a disbeliever.



This part of what you say though, is it also in the Quran? If you deny who is a disbeliever, then you are a disbeliever?

I think it teaches opposite of what you say. God is "Sattar", one of the names of God, meaning He hides the sins and shortcoming of people.
Once again, you're straying. I didn't say anything about sins. I already explained that if the Quran says someone is a disbeliever and you deny they are a disbeliever, you're denying the Quran and that is disbelief.
 

Shakeel

Well-Known Member
As evidence, I submit that he liked the comment where I noted @firedragon that people can't take him seriously when he asks questions like that, followed by me naming such militant islamic groups.

Why would he like the comment if he didn't agree to it?
He likes any post he thinks defends him. No matter what blasphemy or absurdities it contains. Also, he would probably like to go with the flow and pretend that, yes, that's just what he meant. Why backtrack when you made him a good excuse not to answer any further questions. It's not the first time.
 

Shakeel

Well-Known Member
You lie now
Conscious thoughts wrote that 99% of all muslims he has been in contact with is peaceful and loving to others
I know. I thought that was a contradiction too. It's hardly my fault his stuff doesn't always make sense. At the same time, how do you analyse people you meet ramdonly as peaceful and loving? To me it sounds like that is not based on careful observation. You cannot make such conclusions of 99% of the people you meet.
 

Shakeel

Well-Known Member
Conscious thoughts is a sufi muslim. He is a believer in Islam
The problem is he keeps denying Islam's basic tenets. It's not the fact that he calls himself a sufi that's the problem. It would be weird, but it isn't necessarily a problem. The problem is he keeps saying words of disbelief day after day after day. So he is actively denying that he believes in Islam. If you're not happy with that you have to speak to him about it.
It is wrong of you to say to other muslims that they are disbelievers
I haven't said to anyone that they are a disbeliever.
 

InvestigateTruth

Veteran Member
Once again, you're straying. I didn't say anything about sins. I already explained that if the Quran says someone is a disbeliever and you deny they are a disbeliever, you're denying the Quran and that is disbelief.
OK, so, you are making your own conclusion. What you are saying is not stated in the Quran.
And if you cannot back it up with verses of the Quran, why should your conclusion be considered as true Islam?
 
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