It seems that it has been a while since anyone posted in the Pentacostal DIR area.
Allow me to change that.
First, I would claim a right to speak as a Pentacostal by virtue of being an elder and teacher in a Pentacostal Church.
I point this out, not as an attempt to establish some special authority, but because I manifest none of the traditional 'gifts' that are so highly valued among Pentacostals.
No speaking in tongues.
No special gift of healing.
I don't dance.
(Heck, I even struggle to lift my hands above my waist.
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... and yet, those who do manifest such gifts have chosen to honor me by appointing me an Elder in the Church.
So clearly, I do not believe that everyone speaks in tongues ... nor does the congregation of New Beginnings Life Center in Spring Hill, Florida.
Let me offer a deeply personal, and I believe Biblicaly sound, perspective on the Gift of Tongues ...
Each and every gift of the Holy Spirit is given for the same purpose ... To build up the Body of believers and to glorify God. Too often Tongues appears to glorify the speaker and disrupt the body. This is true of any and every so called gift. I say 'so called' because any gift that is not building up the body and/or bringing glory to God ... IS NOT FROM GOD.
However, as someone who does not speak in tongues, I am deeply and personally indebted to the gift of tongues for my salvation. Once upon a time, I was an athiest. It was an encounter with a Catholic Charasmatic fellowship that led me to the initial conclusion that 'you people are totally nuts and need your meds adjusted'. However, it was your deep personal faith and passion that set you apart from the dead services that passed for worship at most large mainline denominational churches that I had encountered. The Charismata (flashy gifts of the Holy Spirit) is what captured my attention and suggested to me that Christianity might be more than empty moral B.S.
So for me, the gift of Tongues is not for everyone, and the gift of tongues is not 'everything' ... but the Gift of Tongues is not nothing. The important thing is to remember, in everything, to give God the glory.
YMMV