robtex
Veteran Member
I have been working on a project that is now mostly complete for the last 9 months. I decided to do this a year ago and I wanted to post my results. It is part of a sub-project which I call my spiritual innventory. It is personal to me but pubic in as far as I interact as well as research for my knowledge. The project is to look at one section of faith at a time interacting with them via emails, message boards and online research. I got the idea indirectly from a pagan friend whom I would have spirtual discussion with at my old work. Speaking to her was my intro into paganism and I thought that even though it wasn't my path is wasn't my anti-path either and that I did gain from it. Mostly in the apprectiation to the divine prescene presented by nature. So I decided to pick one belief...every year for the next decade and spend 6 months to a year on it ....study it interact with its believers and make it my own so to speak ...and than move on. My goals are simple:
spiritual growth
religious tolerance
accrued knowledge
I told a Christian penpal of my plan who lives in New York City. She is 38 divorced two kids. She hated my plan a lot. Mostly because she didn't like me being a UU in as far as I reject the trinity and the notion of Jesus as my savior..or that matter ..the need to be saved. She stopped speaking to me. I thought religious intolerance...hey that is in congruence with goals...more religous tolerance.. It made me more determined!!
I skipped Paganism because I spent time on it with my friend and went straight to atheism. I have a three step formula (that is open for negoication).
1) Join an atheist-based or primary community or interact online with atheits
2) acquire atheist penpals but very important be open about my beliefs with them. In other words I told them I was UU and didn't pretend to be an athiest. I felt honesty was important.
3) study atheism online.
I have one atheist penpal..but boy is she a gem.....very open minded (which is very opposite the sterotype afforded to them but I will get to that later), and very knowledable about Christian theory.
I interacted very heavily with atheist. So much so that a number of the theists thought I was an atheist and would say so to me.
I read pages on evilbible.com, the american atheist web page and infidels.org.
Here is what I learned:
The absense of religion is not the absense of spirtuality. Many atheists have a strong spirtual side but do not thing it is connect to anything divine.
The major categories you could put atheists into are:
Humanist...particuarly secular humanism
utilitarist
nihilists
other (including marxists, freudist and undefinable)
Some hate being classified...which is interesting to a non-atheists like me who is comfortable being labeled as spiritual, religious, and UU.
Many were amazing knowledgable about the Christianity. When I say they were knowledgable, I mean they knew the Bible, the history of the early cultures that practiced Christanity, the religions that were similar to it, the history of the religion up until present, the major arguements for and against it and the differences in the various major practices of faith, like mormanism, catholism, baptism and lutherism.
Many atheists were Christians before they were atheists
A large number were close to absolutly confident that God did not exist (strong atheism) .
A large number of them, not the majority of them but a lot, were either loners, introverts, or pessimist or a combo of the three. The pessimism came out in sarcasm, smart alecks and overall negative content in ideas.
They are more critical of Christianty and Islam as a religion based on the propogation of it than others.
Many, a large many were not looking for religion or spirtuality but were content in their atheism
They saw morality and religion as two seperate things..combinable but not inseperable
My next project to start in November is Hinduism but it is not final yet....i am looking for a forum now..I found a big hindu search engine online....I have a hindu friend at work I have found two possible hindu penpals.....just need to get my ducks in a row:
As a footnote all the observations were personal observations based on my interactions with atheists. I did not look at stats online of any kind that classified or categorized them. Since they were my personal obsevations they do not represent the majority of atheists as I only talked to less than 30. My observations were just that observations. Observations that may have been wrongly intrepreted or biased by myself.
I would like to know if anyone else has done this...even informally and if so what was your forumula and what did you learn?
spiritual growth
religious tolerance
accrued knowledge
I told a Christian penpal of my plan who lives in New York City. She is 38 divorced two kids. She hated my plan a lot. Mostly because she didn't like me being a UU in as far as I reject the trinity and the notion of Jesus as my savior..or that matter ..the need to be saved. She stopped speaking to me. I thought religious intolerance...hey that is in congruence with goals...more religous tolerance.. It made me more determined!!
I skipped Paganism because I spent time on it with my friend and went straight to atheism. I have a three step formula (that is open for negoication).
1) Join an atheist-based or primary community or interact online with atheits
2) acquire atheist penpals but very important be open about my beliefs with them. In other words I told them I was UU and didn't pretend to be an athiest. I felt honesty was important.
3) study atheism online.
I have one atheist penpal..but boy is she a gem.....very open minded (which is very opposite the sterotype afforded to them but I will get to that later), and very knowledable about Christian theory.
I interacted very heavily with atheist. So much so that a number of the theists thought I was an atheist and would say so to me.
I read pages on evilbible.com, the american atheist web page and infidels.org.
Here is what I learned:
The absense of religion is not the absense of spirtuality. Many atheists have a strong spirtual side but do not thing it is connect to anything divine.
The major categories you could put atheists into are:
Humanist...particuarly secular humanism
utilitarist
nihilists
other (including marxists, freudist and undefinable)
Some hate being classified...which is interesting to a non-atheists like me who is comfortable being labeled as spiritual, religious, and UU.
Many were amazing knowledgable about the Christianity. When I say they were knowledgable, I mean they knew the Bible, the history of the early cultures that practiced Christanity, the religions that were similar to it, the history of the religion up until present, the major arguements for and against it and the differences in the various major practices of faith, like mormanism, catholism, baptism and lutherism.
Many atheists were Christians before they were atheists
A large number were close to absolutly confident that God did not exist (strong atheism) .
A large number of them, not the majority of them but a lot, were either loners, introverts, or pessimist or a combo of the three. The pessimism came out in sarcasm, smart alecks and overall negative content in ideas.
They are more critical of Christianty and Islam as a religion based on the propogation of it than others.
Many, a large many were not looking for religion or spirtuality but were content in their atheism
They saw morality and religion as two seperate things..combinable but not inseperable
My next project to start in November is Hinduism but it is not final yet....i am looking for a forum now..I found a big hindu search engine online....I have a hindu friend at work I have found two possible hindu penpals.....just need to get my ducks in a row:
As a footnote all the observations were personal observations based on my interactions with atheists. I did not look at stats online of any kind that classified or categorized them. Since they were my personal obsevations they do not represent the majority of atheists as I only talked to less than 30. My observations were just that observations. Observations that may have been wrongly intrepreted or biased by myself.
I would like to know if anyone else has done this...even informally and if so what was your forumula and what did you learn?