I have been having issues with the way those two words are used myself. Let's start by looking at what Webster's dictionary says as dictionaries define words:
Definition of
religious
- relating to or manifesting faithful devotion to an acknowledged ultimate reality or deity <a religious person> <religious attitudes>
- of, relating to, or devoted to religious beliefs or observances <joined a religious order>
Definition of spiritual
- of, relating to, consisting of, or affecting the spirit : incorporeal <spiritual needs>
I voted:
I call myself spiritual
As a pantheist I am not really 'relating to or manifesting faithful devotion to an acknowledged ultimate reality or deity'. That's so Abrahamic, and so last millennial.
The definition is off. Buddhism is a religion and has no deities. Theyd say we arent spiritual because of it but how we practice our faith (religion) and why we practice makes up the spiritualify itself.
How can one back a cake when they believe in the recipe, taste it just by thinking of it, even put the indegredients and utencils out to make the cake but never lift a finger to actually bake he cake?
Religion focuses on baking the cake. Its the physical explanation of ones faith. Spiritually delves into the relationship you have with it. Why and what the ingredients mean when thry hit your tongue.
Deities arent needed for the general definition of the word.
Definition of religion
- 1a : the state of a religious <a nun in her 20th year of religion>b (1) : the service and worship of God or the supernatural (2) : commitment or devotion to religious faith or observance
- 2: a personal set or institutionalized system of religious attitudes, beliefs, and practices
- 3archaic : scrupulous conformity : conscientiousness
- 4: a cause, principle, or system of beliefs held to with ardor and faith
Its not a combination of them. Religion means different things by context, culture, politics, and era.
Its a devotion in a conformed mannor. The object or person of devotion is absent. The dictionaries lean toward christian views. For example, in 1913 marriage was:
The act of marrying, or the state of being married; legal union of a man and a woman for life, as husband and wife; wedlock; matrimony.
Marriage is honorable in all.
- Heb. xiii. 4.
2. The marriage vow or contract.
3. A feast made on the occasion of a marriage.
The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king which made a marriage for his son.
- Matt. xxii. 2.
4. Any intimate or close union.
5. In pinochle, bézique, and similar games at cards, the combination of a king and queen of the same suit. If of the trump suit, it is called a royal marria
Def. Marriage 1913
Been like that since the early 1990s. Then it switches to...
- a (1) : the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law (2) : the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage <same-sex marriage>b : the mutual relation of married persons : wedlockc : the institution whereby individuals are joined in a marriage
- 2: an act of marrying or the rite by which the married status is effected; especially : the wedding ceremony and attendant festivities or formalities
- 3: an intimate or close union <the marriage of painting and poetry — J. T. Shawcross>
Can we really trust the dictionary guys?
But common definition is religion is an Act of devotion.
Spirituality is defined differently by person. Dictionary cant fine common grounds unfortunately.