When one is consumed with love for money, in most instances, all that is thought of is posessions, thus resembling greed. When one is consumed with love of self, all one thinks of is pleasing self, thus resembling selfishness. When one is consumed with unconditional love of others, it can only think of being useful for the good of others, thus resembling goodness. When one only knows and loves hatred, all one can think of is negative actions, thus resembling the persecutor. Yes we become what we love, or what we are taught. When a child is taught that it is stupid or that it will never amount to anything, then that is what the child believes until someone instills self confidence in the child. It is hard to believe that some people "love" to be a racist, but if that is all they are taught, then they believe it is right and love who they are, and thus resemble that which they love.