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This very simple guide hopes to give some insight into sexual magic for BDSM practitioners. As someone into such practices myself I find this area of magic highly interesting.
First, it is important of course for everyone to be consenting, experienced, all that good stuff. You also need to understand the partner you are working with and, just as importantly, yourself. There should be care and empathy there, to an extent where the dominant can see the submissive as a god(dess) through whom they cause internal and external change, whereas the dominant is a god(dess) working their will through the submissive.
Second, rituals should be planned in advanced. Have a general idea of what you are going to do and be set up before hand. Both parties should discuss the magical aspect of what is happening prior to the ritual.
Third, the dominant and submissive enter the “chamber” and assume their masks. This is done by the dominant taking control of the submissive, giving them orders, blindfolding them, tying them down, and so on. Both roles should be progressively increased as the ritual goes on, rather than immediately jumping into full torturous bondage. Make the time as you would and other ritual.
Finally, if orgasm is not reached as part of the bondage the ritual should finish with mundane sex. Simple I love yous, no restrains or orders, just embracing. If orgasm IS reached during the ritual, it should be followed with something mundane such as reading, separating for a bit, watching tv while cuddling, anything to bring you back to the world of the every day.
What happens is that the submissive acts as the lead being made into gold of alchemy. They start as themselves and end in a state where they cannot help but feel good and love themselves, if done properly. The dominant is the magician himself, in charge of manipulating the present energies, including everything from music playing to the submissive’s pleasure. The submissive, on the other hand, allows the work to be done, to be used as the tool for inner transformation of both parties.
This very simple guide hopes to give some insight into sexual magic for BDSM practitioners. As someone into such practices myself I find this area of magic highly interesting.
First, it is important of course for everyone to be consenting, experienced, all that good stuff. You also need to understand the partner you are working with and, just as importantly, yourself. There should be care and empathy there, to an extent where the dominant can see the submissive as a god(dess) through whom they cause internal and external change, whereas the dominant is a god(dess) working their will through the submissive.
Second, rituals should be planned in advanced. Have a general idea of what you are going to do and be set up before hand. Both parties should discuss the magical aspect of what is happening prior to the ritual.
Third, the dominant and submissive enter the “chamber” and assume their masks. This is done by the dominant taking control of the submissive, giving them orders, blindfolding them, tying them down, and so on. Both roles should be progressively increased as the ritual goes on, rather than immediately jumping into full torturous bondage. Make the time as you would and other ritual.
Finally, if orgasm is not reached as part of the bondage the ritual should finish with mundane sex. Simple I love yous, no restrains or orders, just embracing. If orgasm IS reached during the ritual, it should be followed with something mundane such as reading, separating for a bit, watching tv while cuddling, anything to bring you back to the world of the every day.
What happens is that the submissive acts as the lead being made into gold of alchemy. They start as themselves and end in a state where they cannot help but feel good and love themselves, if done properly. The dominant is the magician himself, in charge of manipulating the present energies, including everything from music playing to the submissive’s pleasure. The submissive, on the other hand, allows the work to be done, to be used as the tool for inner transformation of both parties.
