The way i see things is this .
Why does the world need to know what your sexual preference is , sex is a private act between two people , The Bible recognises and indeed encourages sex ( see the Song of Solomon ) as part of a man / woman, life building, ongoing, active relationship . It`s not a, be all ,end all ,act in isolation .
At the same time the Bible also says that God loves you with an everlasting love , but to experience that love then we have to allow Jesus to " cross the bridge " for us in our own personal experience.
Apart from that experience then the Bible is just a dusty old book .
However when you do meet Father God , the author , through the work of Christ , then the book comes alive, as does your spirit and your divinely inspired creativity, of course non Christians can be creative , but we don`t reach our full potential until we plug into the life source ,Jesus.
To fully understand the Bible you need Christ in your life , " You must be born again !"