A quick story. At the time (and now) I did not think of god. In 2013, my grandmother passed away. I didn't have a chance to see her even though I had a gut feeling (some say god?) warned me something was wrong. She died of cancer. It took me a year of grief and another year or so angry.
My aunt died January 6th 2018. She is and was my best friend. I only mourned severely half a year. Still in grief but now I can talk about it.
Lastly (but many experiences in between), I had to replace my "pacemaker-like" battery. So, they knocked me out to perform surgery last year. They asked: "do I want partial awareness or full black out" I said blackout. The weird thing is, I was not aware at all. If someone were to cremate me, I would have never known it. Then I asked, how does my heart stopping, brain deteriorating, as well as my body all of the sudden make an afterlife compared to when everything was functioning but I was still not aware?
In other words, how does the condition of my body affect whether there is an afterlife or not?
I had a revelation. When you are partially aware, you're still alive. When you are deteriorating, brain and all, you are not. The "soul" should exist in both cases. It does not. NDE are altered consciousness not life after death experiences.
So, after all this if you read it please, I figure, there is no afterlife. I would be fooling myself it there were. Acceptance is better. It's the end of grief and whatever I leave behind is my afterlife. God not included.
Upon my talking to Atheists will say there is nothing after dieing, but then my question is, As to how do Atheists knows this for sure .seeing that no one has died for any amount of time, whether it be a week, a month or a year.
.....so....
I don't know why some of us say there is no life after death. For me, it has nothing to do with belief in god. Buddhist believe in rebirth of the self until the self is completely gone. Hindu believe in god and reincarnation and such. So, there is always a sense of an afterlife whether it's a black and white/here then there or a continuum of being until one meets union.
It's basically awareness, revelation, and experiences. Kind of like a "now I know" a
acceptance that there is nothing not knowledge there isn't. In other words, knowledge isn't important. We accept. We have insight. We don't define the Self whose experiencing these things.
I only came upon needing-to-know among christians. Most everyone else really don't care insomuch to talk about it outside their own selves and/or peers.
My question: Why is it important for you (in general) to know?
Why is proof important for you?
Now as for the spirit, what proof do you have that the spirit dies when we die.
Belief in god, for example, isn't about proof. In Christianity, specifically, it's about faith. You have faith in something exists without proof that it does by sight.
It's the same thing. We don't have knowledge. We have faith/trust based on our direct experiences whether spiritual or not. In other words, the question is irrelevant.
But to answer your question, we don't know; we don't have proof.
Why consider it as true when there is nothing to give us any reason to ask the question?
Seeing no one has died, to come back to prove anything about an afterlife.
Here's what you said above -->( That's it. We're dead. Our soul/personality is alive when our brain is. Our spirit/what makes our body function, dies when our body dies. Our sense of self, our spirit, is the perception of the mind not an individual state of being. So, we die. Nothing more.)
So my question to you is how do you know this for sure, seeing that no one has died to come back to tell or say as to what happens after dieing.
It was interesting after my experiences above.
The soul is said to be our identity or sense of self. When you have different mental illnesses sometimes that dilutes your sense of self. If it were separate, one would notice their mental health experiences apart from them. In other words, if the soul was separate it would be aware of the mental health experiences. It isn't. Our identities are based on a lot of things including our religions and environment. I posted a movie on how our brain creates our realities. If you want, I can post it?
Another thing I realized is the spirit is another word for energy. Think about it. When the holy spirit communicates, how do you feel? What is that euphoria you have (whatever you call it) that's beyond mind and body. It's energy. We can't touch it but we can sense it. Hindus and Buddhist have been "playing" with energy for thousands of years.
I wish I was a scientist but the gist is everything runs off of energy. You can sense it most when you pray or meditate and do activities that put you in a state of awareness. Hard to explain. If you experienced prayer, that's what it is.
Without identity, our mind, there is no life (we are in a coma). Without spirit or energy, our body and brain is dead. Nothing keeps it alive.
It's alright to have religion and ways to believe one believes there is life after death. Personally, I feel it's a grieving stage. Everyone goes through it differently.
What your saying, is the same thing I get from talking to Atheists, That's it we're dead, but how do you this for sure, what proof do you have,
Seeing the scientific world can't prove one way or another what happens after dieing in the Unexplained, Unknown.
Yes and no. A lot of atheists I speak with don't believe in the soul and spirit; I do. I do believe we have a core identity. I do believe that when we get in touch with our spirit energy (breathe of life) we are aware and one with ourselves.
I disagree that it's all scientific. I just attribute it to a different source/nature than a christian does.
So what proof do you have that the scientific world doesn't have.
What do you mean?
What proof do I have that there is something beyond the scientific world?
That's an odd question. Do you have proof that there is something beyond the scientific world?
Once you clarify than I can probably answer.
Maybe you should get a hold of the scientific world and let them know, that you know what exactly happens after dieing.
Actually, I never heard of a scientific anything until I came on RF. I didn't realize that atheism was such a "thing" until I came here. I just thought, it is what it is, I'm hungry.
How do you get a hold of the scientific world?