While I greatly enjoy the likes of Dawkins, Harris, Hitchens and Dennett, I do not tend to hang on their every word. I do agree that minimizing understanding so that it turns to what science knows as the only yardstick for gauging reality is a tad narrow. I'm a great fan of myth, symbolism (on many levels), dreams, poetry, art and music and understand that each speaks to a part of being that coexists with the purely intellectual but is not in competition with it.
Though I rarely use terms like "spirit" or "soul" due to their inherent religious baggage, both can be a useful term at times if given proper qualifiers. For example, on the rare occasions I use the terms I do so with the caveat that I don't want theists to think I am being supportive of their definitions, furthering their narratives. If that is arrogant, so be it.
I guess what I am saying is that just because I am a strong atheist that doesn't mean that I have no soul, depth or appreciation for the incredible psychological adventure we share called life. My adventures in consciousness, at first, were utterly divorced from the physical world and three dimensional understanding, where as my experience morphed, and circled back, coming full circle into the radiance of physical reality, all its quirks warts, pleasure, pains and sorrows. That is when my empathy really kicked into high gear. I began to see a world of confused, frightened, heroic, monstrous, delightful, sincere and fascinating individuals all with their own piece of the puzzle (of the great mystery of life) clutched in their hot little mitts. That was a humbling experience. I knew I was no different and was a part of it all too.
Since that time, I've focused on the psychological impact/underpinnings and causes of, for lack of a better way to put it, "spiritual growth". Spiritual growth explained from a perspective that rarely relies on religious understanding to explain our larger dimensions of activity. Likewise, I am wary of getting on the trendy bastardization of Quantum Mechanics by pretending to understand QM enough to show how my thinking is supported by the bleeding edge theorists.
In support of the OP given by
@Debater Slayer I can only say that our "field" is still young. We are still feeling our way along, often blindly and so we will fall flat on our faces from time to time. We will sound a bit shrill. We will get things wrong. We will dig in our heels just as often as our happy theists until we realize we have made an error of judgment. So, I ask people to be patient. Much of what new atheist speakers say IS meant to rattle the cages of traditional theism. That is the point.
It's not that we want to throw the baby out with the bath water, but perhaps, it's more the case of wrapping the baby in a towel of a loving embrace before it drowns in its own dirty water.