PoetPhilosopher
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While I probably wouldn't consider what the book teaches 'perfect', I support it as an emphasis for developing better ideas in society, as a starting point:
en.m.wikipedia.org
I'd say that my first love language would be words of affirmation, and my second, possibly acts of service.
And I have seen potential incompatibilities before with people who aren't much into words of affirmation or giving them, while I'd say that I kind of am. For me, compliments are appreciated, but sometimes overrated, though... I much prefer deeper verbal messages, saying things like "I want to be with you" (or whatever is on one's mind) rather than things like "You are a great person". So in other words, social contractual words, rather than words which unnecessarily inflate the ego.
The Five Love Languages - Wikipedia
I'd say that my first love language would be words of affirmation, and my second, possibly acts of service.
And I have seen potential incompatibilities before with people who aren't much into words of affirmation or giving them, while I'd say that I kind of am. For me, compliments are appreciated, but sometimes overrated, though... I much prefer deeper verbal messages, saying things like "I want to be with you" (or whatever is on one's mind) rather than things like "You are a great person". So in other words, social contractual words, rather than words which unnecessarily inflate the ego.