You confuse me FOC.
I'm not sure how you resolve both views. Can you explain?
Let's start with 1 Cor 2:11--"For what man knows the things of a man, Except the spirit of man, which is in him"
So here we find, that man has a spirit in him.
2 Cor 5:6--"Therefore we are always confident, knowing that, while we are at home in the body, We are absent from the Lord"
You see while our spirit is here in the body, we are absent from the Lord, But once our body of flesh dies, Then our spirit separates from the body and goes to be present with the Lord.
2 Cor 2:8--"We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord"
Once our spirit becomes separated from our body when we die, Then our spirit goes to be present with the Lord.
Ecclesiastes 12:7--"Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God, who gave it"
The body of flesh returns back to the earth, from where it was taken, and our spirit which is inside of the body, returns back to God, who gave it.
1 Cor 15:52--"In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed"
Therefore at the last trumpet, when it is sounded, We become separated from this body of flesh, and our spirit goes to meet the Lord in the spirit.
Revelation 1:7--"Behold, he comes with clouds; and every eye shall see him, and they also which pierced him: and all kindreds of the earth shall wait because of him, Even so, A-men"
How will it be possible for every eye to see him, at Jesus coming, For everyone will be in the spirit, when the last trumpet is sounded, This being the 7th trump in Revelation, That when this trumpet is sounded, everyone will be changed in the twinkling of an eye to the spirit.