I believe that a person's afterlife is primarily determined by them, meaning their character and the decisions (good or bad) they've made in their life can affect what happens to them after they die. Of course, we're all just sharing what we personally believe, whether it's based on our religious beliefs or not.
I believe that a person's afterlife is determined by them, meaning that their character and the decisions they've made in their life will determine what happens to them after they die. That is a Baha'i belief but it is also confirmed by books that I have read such as The Afterlife Revealed.
We can speculate all we want about the afterlife or base our beliefs on some holy book, but I don't believe we will truly know for sure until we die and cross over.
I agree that we will not know about the afterlife till we cross over and that is a Baha'i belief.
According to Baha'i beliefs, God has never revealed the nature of the soul after death.
"The nature of the soul after death can never be described, nor is it meet and permissible to reveal its whole character to the eyes of men. The Prophets and Messengers of God have been sent down for the sole purpose of guiding mankind to the straight Path of Truth. The purpose underlying Their revelation hath been to educate all men, that they may, at the hour of death, ascend, in the utmost purity and sanctity and with absolute detachment, to the throne of the Most High."
According to Baha'i beliefs, the mysteries of the afterlife have not been revealed by God, and one reason that they have not been revealed is explained in the passage below.
"Know thou that every hearing ear, if kept pure and undefiled, must, at all times and from every direction, hearken to the voice that uttereth these holy words: “Verily, we are God’s, and to Him shall we return.” The mysteries of man’s physical death and of his return have not been divulged, and still remain unread. By the righteousness of God! Were they to be revealed, they would evoke such fear and sorrow that some would perish, while others would be so filled with gladness as to wish for death, and beseech, with unceasing longing, the one true God—exalted be His glory—to hasten their end."
However, I am curious about how my life will end and whether I will cross over into the spirit world. But I am not concerned about what will happen to me on the other side.
I am curious but I am also concerned. I am not concerned because I am worried that I will go to hell, but I think it is only natural for one to be concerned about where they will spend all of eternity! Given there is no brochure or guidebook, the mere thought of going somewhere I have never been before and somewhere I know nothing about is daunting, to say the very least.
Sure, there are promises in the Bible and in the Baha'i Writings. For example:
“O My servants! Sorrow not if, in these days and on this earthly plane, things contrary to your wishes have been ordained and manifested by God, for days of blissful joy, of heavenly delight, are assuredly in store for you. Worlds, holy and spiritually glorious, will be unveiled to your eyes. You are destined by Him, in this world and hereafter, to partake of their benefits, to share in their joys, and to obtain a portion of their sustaining grace. To each and every one of them you will, no doubt, attain.”
(Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 329)
All Baha'is that I know simply 'believe' in the promises of Baha'u'llah, but I need more assurance than scriptures can offer.
Without more I am not counting on anything.
To be honest, I believe that none of us truly knows what will happen to us after we die. Some religious people claim to know based on their preferred religious beliefs, church doctrines, and religious texts, but in my opinion, they're speculating just like the rest of us. The spirit world could be entirely different from what they expected. I believe the same is true for those who don't believe in an afterlife.
And therein lies the problem. Christians and Baha'is can be so sure that the afterlife will be blissful and glorious, but that is simply a faith-based belief. The spirit world could be entirely different from what they expected.
Moreover, generic promises for all believers make no sense to me because even if the afterlife is blissful and glorious for most people that does not mean it will be blissful and glorious for everyone. I am not like most people in this life so why would I be like most people in the afterlife?