What accepted translation? There are many "accepted" English translations, my friend. When I am investigating a point in the Qur'an, I normally utilize 16 translations
simultaneously, that also provides the transliterations of the original Arabic. Utlizing so many translations gives a far clearer view of what is really being talked about in the text and I am not at the mercy of any individual translator's agenda.
To be perfectly honest, it is child's play to take any given translation and use it as your proof text, as a gold standard, if you will. The reality is that most of the passages of the Qur'an have been translated in numerous ways over the years, so one cannot point to a single translation and say it is
the "accepted translation".
As to the windy Muslim replies, the sad fact is that most replies rely on circular reasoning and so are very difficult to critique. When pressed Muslims,
if they are feeling generous,
may admit it is all a matter of faith, whereas others may claim the reader is simply in denial for not accepting the answers that are given.
Likewise, I began this thread with a very clear contradiction between the Qur'an and widely accepted events in the life of your prophet. I do understand that the ahadith are not on the same level as the Qur'an, however, it does occupy the 2nd place in Muslim thinking. The thing is, non-Muslims point out errors and contradictions, which Muslims then trip over themselves to explain, at length, why those contradictions are not actually contradictory. These answers seldom impress the non-Muslim greatly, unless of course, said non-Muslim knows very little about Islam to begin with.
At the end of the discussion, when both parties are exhausted from playing mental and verbal gymnastics, we simply choose to disagree. Sadly though, a draw is not exactly what I would expect in such conversations. In theory, Muslims have the word of God on their side, so the debates
should ALWAYS land in the Muslim's favor. But the reality is, that all we ever get are stalemates, followed by ad hominem barrages.
Doesn't that fact, alone, make you question the validity of your arguments? In my view, if Muslim positions actually had merit these discussions would be over very, very quickly and we would all sit back and wonder what just hit us. Instead, we are left blinking at what we are reading, trying to find the sense in it.