I'm not sure where your logic connects here.
I have complete compassion for my children but does compassion translate into letting them believe a lie or join in a lie?
It is your insistence that those who have gender identity challenges are lying that is where you are not connecting the logic. It is your judgment that is immoral and flawed. Heck, it even goes against what Jesus taught about NOT judging others for who they are. I would say those who have gender identity challenges are living the truth if they are being honest with themselves. But you as a Christian who ignores what Jesus taught? Who is living the lie?
What was that parable about a plank in your eye?
Seriously, what is your level of expertise about gender identity challenges? I have none. A friend of mine has his phd in gender identity psychology, and we have had some talks about this. Another friend has a daughter that at 20 was not happy and wanted to get hormone therapy to transition. Now I have no expertise about this issue and I have no personal perspective as a heterosexual male. I had mixed feelings about her transition, and was not sure why she wanted to do this. She has been doing therapy for about a decade now and is much happier in life. So, is it up to me and you to decide what makes Cass happy, or is it none of our business? We can have our reaction to this, but what right do we have to say anything? You fall back on your religion, but I have only myself, so my integrity, my compassion, my morals. I have nowhere to hide. So I show Cass support, and feel happy that he has found happiness. This is my obligation as a human being.
Certainly I show compassion. I am against transitioning because of compassion.
No, you lack compassion because you can't see human beings for who they are because you look at everything through the filter of your religious dogma. It taints any chance you have to be truly compassionate, and not be judgmental. You defer your judgment to your dogma, as if you have no option but to judge trans people. That is an excuse. It's the "I was just following orders" excuse that immoral people try to hide behind.
I want them to get help because of compassion. And one could say that love compels one not close their eyes and mouth when a lie is being propagated.
This is how religion suffocates the spirit. The dogma weighs so heavily that the soul can't be free to live and feel what is natural. Such believers are little more than empty agents for religion, and it is no wonder they confuse judgment and intolerance for love and compassion.