Makes me happy? What kind of an answer was that?If that makes you happy! I just can't agree to a lie just because someone believes the lie. So we agree to disagree and still love people through their lives and living.
You wrote, "When someone says she, an XX, wants me to participate in her declaring she is an XY - she is asking me to join her in a lie" and I replied, "It's you misrepresenting reality, not her. Her truth includes that she has XY chromosomes. Ask her."
You haven't tried to defend your use of the word lie. You ignored my rebuttal to your claim and repeated the scurrilous charge.
Others have already commented on your reply above, and I agree.
And you and I have discussed my objections to what is meant by love to the church here, and you exemplify nicely why that is an inadequate model for love:
You: "we can spread the love that the message of Jesus brings."
Me: "That's not love as I use the word. Christians say that God is love, but its actions are seen as immoral from a humanist perspective. The love of God includes damnation. Love in Christianity includes blood sacrifice. I like the "message of love" that humanism embodies better. Love is about making other lives better."
This is why I am an antitheist. I object to people with bigoted views teaching the hatreds of this religion to susceptible minds. That's why I wrote this post - to underscore the moral failings of what is going on in churches and the poverty of ideas like love and truth (or lie) in that culture.
So, no, I guess I don't agree to disagree if that means that's the end of it. I agree to go on opposing that institution and the vectors of its destructive doctrine.