What I'm saying is that you are misunderstanding their intent because it serves your own bias.
How could I be misunderstanding their intent to say that they are arguing for Gods existence when the only times that "argument" (again, I loathe to call it that, because that is NOT what it is) has been presented to me in a personal situation is when I am telling the other person that I don't believe in God? Is that not some lame attempt to try and show me that somewhere deep in the recesses of my crap-filled colon I
DO acknowledge God's existence? Isn't that what it is about? How could it not be? Never is the "fox-holes" phrase used with me in a conversation merely about "the powers we turn to when we feel powerless." Never. I've never even had
that conversation. So how could I be misconstruing their intent when the argument is about whether or not it is warranted to believe in God? You still haven't explained this. You just keep making your same assertions and telling me what I should think about personal conversations I have had with theists that
YOU WERE NOT A PART OF.
The nature or existence of God is not something ANY OF US can know or logically debate as true or false. So the disagreement, here, is NOT about the nature or existence of God. It's about what god-concept we choose to place our hope and trust in, and why ... or why we choose not to. Those smug theists you're referring to are simply pointing out that atheism tends to be a 'fair-weather' choice that's held onto when it's easy, and when one feels safe and in control of their life's circumstances through the power of one's own will and knowledge. But when that safety and control are taken away from them, their atheism tends to succumb to the same need for some greater power from outside the self that theists have been acknowledging and surrendering to all along.
And they are right about that, even if they are being annoyingly smug about it.
Nope. Not right. I don't "turn to God" for anything, no matter how dire the circumstances, or how "out of my hands" the situation. It wouldn't even cross my mind anymore. There was a time when I was "trying things out" perhaps, and I may have requested this or that sign, or asked a question to "God" (whatever the hell that is supposed to be), but I most certainly outgrew it. Especially given those exact same experiences within which
NOTHING ANSWERED BACK AND NOTHING HAPPENED. It became all too easy to see that I was, like I truly believe everyone else is, on my own. Save for the actual people in my life, there is nothing out there with my best interests in mind - and I am not so naive to even contemplate that there might be any longer.
And here you are, accusing me of being "smug" when your above paragraphs are you telling me what I, as an atheist, think. But, obviously, you can't see that. Too much "theism" clouding your judgment. Just know that your opinion means absolutely nothing to me. Nothing. In my personal mental Rolodex of who's who - you're in the section unceremoniously headed "Incorrigibles"