One must play by certain 'rules' or dharma, if you will, if one wishes continued participation in maya.
'All rules' rather than 'certain'.
I see that death is a birth where we face the reality of who we are. I see we get to face the Ultimate Truth and what we face is the life we chose to live.
To expect anything after death is
'trishna',
'tanha' (Buddhist), thirst, longing, attachment; and pitiful like an old man hankering after sex or trying to chew bones. After death, it is assimilation in the elements.
"Yah akamah nishkamah aptakamah attakamah l na tasya prana utkramanti, Brahmaiva sambrahmapyeti ll"
The one who desires migrates, but the man who is without desires never migrates; of him who is without desires, who is free from desires, the objects of whose desire have been attained, and to whom all objects of desire are but the Self – being Brahman, he is merged in Brahman.
Brihadaranyaka Upanishad
"The truth is - that deeds come from
upādāna (clinging to existence),
upādāna comes from
trishna (craving),
trishna comes from
vedana (torture), the perception of pain and pleasure, the desire for rest; sensation (contact with objects) brings desire for life or the will to live."
Trishna (Vedic thought) - Wikipedia
"The Buddha identified three types of taṇhā:
Kāma-taṇhā (sensual pleasures craving): craving for sense objects which provide pleasant feeling, or craving for sensory pleasures. Walpola Rahula states that taṇhā includes not only desire for sense-pleasures, wealth and power, but also "desire for, and attachment to, ideas and ideals, views, opinions, theories, conceptions and beliefs (dhamma-taṇhā)."
Bhava-taṇhā (craving for being): craving to be something, to unite with an experience. This is ego-related, states Harvey, the seeking of certain identity and desire for certain type of rebirth eternally. Other scholars explain that this type of craving is driven by the wrong view of eternalism (eternal life) and about permanence.
Vibhava-taṇhā (craving for non-existence): craving to not experience unpleasant things in the current or future life, such as unpleasant people or situations."
Taṇhā - Wikipedia