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Utilitarian/Hedonistic Religions?

Kirran

Premium Member
Thanks! I may give this a shot. I think LHP is what I'm looking for but I don't like the 'evil' associations with it. Why do you have to be dark if you are LHP? I want to be a good person, but I want to focus on my own self-actualisation too.

Who is the self you seek to actualise?
 

Liu

Well-Known Member
Thanks! I may give this a shot. I think LHP is what I'm looking for but I don't like the 'evil' associations with it. Why do you have to be dark if you are LHP? I want to be a good person, but I want to focus on my own self-actualisation too.
You don't have to be dark, but I think there are three main reasons why it is often connected.
1. Self-work means working with all parts of oneself. Therefore, that can include some pretty "dark" aspects.
2. Certain spiritual activities that might be helpful for such endeavors therefore may include the breaking of perceived taboos.
3. And the mere fact that one would value the self as much or more than society is a potential danger to society, therefore it's often denigrated.

If you understand the reasons behind the symbolism, you can replace it with other symbolism that you are more comfortable with.
Ultimately, it would be a goal to get potentially comfortable with any symbolism. But I understand if you deem that too risky in your case at the moment.
 

Kemosloby

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
Well if you have Christian roots, all you have to do is disbelieve there will be a resurrection for us. In that case Paul the Apostle says, "Eat and drink for Tomorrow we die" ; The Governor on the Walking Dead was not the first to say it, but lets hope there is a resurrection and that it is a little sweeter than on the Walking Dead.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
A lot of religions emphasize abstinence, asceticism, ect. But I'm utilitarian and think we should enjoy our sensual experiences as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. And we should go about making life as pleasurable for both ourselves and others as possible.

Is there a religion like this? I know Satanism can be considered hedonistic but I don't really like the whole idea of Satan (I was brought up in a Christian household and have a history of psychosis).

I want to expand a bit on "sensual experiences". Of course sexuality springs to mind, and sexuality is an example of the sensual. But I'd say that eating and smelling and observing and touching and hearing can also be sensual. AND, that exercising hard won skill is also sensual. E.g. if you've worked hard on your tennis game, then hitting a perfect topspin lob IS a sensual experience.
 

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
That, or pretty much any LHP-religion. Just because you don't want to work with the mythology normally associated with Satanism, @Sheon, you don't need to rule out its philosophy with it.
LHP-religions are about choosing what works for you, so if someone feels better in another set of myths, they can use that as well.

Actually, even many who call themselves Satanists tend to utilize other myths more than Abrahamic ones.

I agree, but it's a matter of what we understand by hedonism.
And I'd argue that serious adherents of a hedonistic philosophy don't strive for pleasure at any cost, but rather for a balance between what they'd enjoy now and what is best for their goals in the long run. Else they could simply become drug-addicts.

Again, LHP. There certainly are also other religions that are compatible with that, but the (western) LHP is explicitly focused on self-improvement and finding what makes you you.
It's often not really associated with helping others, but it certainly won't hinder you from doing so if you want to, on the contrary,

Therefore immoral = things that hurt oneself? ;)

Not necessarily physically, but some do. For example AIDS not only hurts the homosexual, it also killed many who were not homosexuals.

In a marriage, adultery certainly hurts the innocent spouse emotionally.

I could get behind that, but I think we may disagree about which things hurt in that way.

No doubt about it. Can you really defend adultery?
 

Nietzsche

The Last Prussian
Premium Member
A lot of religions emphasize abstinence, asceticism, ect. But I'm utilitarian and think we should enjoy our sensual experiences as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. And we should go about making life as pleasurable for both ourselves and others as possible.

Is there a religion like this? I know Satanism can be considered hedonistic but I don't really like the whole idea of Satan (I was brought up in a Christian household and have a history of psychosis).
Norse are pretty happy to drink, **** who you like and just generally do as you please. No real behavior restrictions so long as you're willing to put your money where your mouth is.
 

Nietzsche

The Last Prussian
Premium Member
Not necessarily physically, but some do. For example AIDS not only hurts the homosexual, it also killed many who were not homosexuals.
I would imagine so, since homosexuals and heterosexuals have the same sorts of immune systems, and diseases aren't as bigoted as the people that it afflicts. It's very equal-opportunity that way. Most viruses and the syndromes(y'see, AIDs isn't really passed around, it's HIV, which causes AIDs, that you can pass around) they cause are.
 

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
I would imagine so, since homosexuals and heterosexuals have the same sorts of immune systems, and diseases aren't as bigoted as the people that it afflicts. It's very equal-opportunity that way. Most viruses and the syndromes(y'see, AIDs isn't really passed around, it's HIV, which causes AIDs, that you can pass around) they cause are.

Quibble noted. The point is that Aids is the result of doing something God calss a sin. The worst thing is that it was passed on to many who did not sin in that way.
 

Nietzsche

The Last Prussian
Premium Member
Quibble noted. The point is that Aids is the result of doing something God calss a sin. The worst thing is that it was passed on to many who did not sin in that way.
AIDs is the result of HIV, which was originally a disease afflicting either Monkeys or Chimpanzees(both are equally likely), and the people in close contact with these animals(Africans) consuming poorly cooked flesh from these creatures. Its spread in Africa had nothing to do with homosexuality. It's spread in America also had nothing to do with homosexuals. It's passed by passing fluids, any sort of sexual contact will give you the disease if your partner is infected.

This information is all easily available on the internet. There's no excuse for your ignorance.
 

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
AIDs is the result of HIV, which was originally a disease afflicting either Monkeys or Chimpanzees(both are equally likely), and the people in close contact with these animals(Africans) consuming poorly cooked flesh from these creatures. Its spread in Africa had nothing to do with homosexuality. It's spread in America also had nothing to do with homosexuals. It's passed by passing fluids, any sort of sexual contact will give you the disease if your partner is infected.

This information is all easily available on the internet. There's no excuse for your ignorance.

Quibble noted. After it got to America it certainly was passed on from Homosexual who were inffected.
 

Nietzsche

The Last Prussian
Premium Member
Quibble noted. After it got to America it certainly was passed on from Homosexual who were inffected.
But that isn't true. It didn't start in homosexuals. And it wasn't homosexuals who caused its spread in America. It was by and large heterosexuals who shared dirty needles.
 

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
But that isn't true. It didn't start in homosexuals. And it wasn't homosexuals who caused its spread in America. It was by and large heterosexuals who shared dirty needles.

Not true. Dirty needles not infected with AIDS don't spread aids. They had to have gotten a needles used by someone with the virus.
 

Nietzsche

The Last Prussian
Premium Member
Not true. Dirty needles not infected with AIDS don't spread aids. They had to have gotten a needles used by someone with the virus.
Yes. And the people who initially came back over with HIV(again, the important factor here), initially spread it without knowing they were infected. This wormed its way down into the poor, and it had its first great successes when the first junkies and such got it. Through use of shared needles it exploded. It has nothing to do with who you have sex with, it has everything to do with who you share fluids with.
 

LukeS

Active Member
Did anyone mention tantraism, where afaik part of the idea is not to avoid sensuality but use sensuality in the service of spirituality...?
 

moon light

even mind can not be trusted only inspiration
Sure, but most sex outside of marriage doesn't result in the transmission of diseases. If people are educated and know what they're doing they can prevent their spread.

Yeah, abuse outside marriage is a big problem. But harm within a marriage may well be worse, cos escape is harder.

OK!
Well - I will explain my point of view in another way
- The practice of sex between a couple of animals - what prevents one of them from having sex with a third animal - nothing
- Sex between a couple of humans - what prevents one of them having sex with a third person - nothing if they are unmarried
- If they are couples, morality prevents them

Because morality is the limit of harm
morality is what characterizes humans from animals
Because the animals have no morals but they have instinct
So whether you want morals or not - that's the question
 
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Kirran

Premium Member
Well - I will explain my point of view in another way
- The practice of sex between a couple of animals - what prevents one of them from having sex with a third animal - nothing
- Sex between a couple of humans - what prevents one of them having sex with a third person - nothing if they are unmarried
- If they are couples, morality prevents them

morality is what characterizes humans from animals
Because the animals have no morals but they have instinct
So whether you want morals or not - that's the question

So you define sex between unmarried people as immoral? This is subjective, surely?
 
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