The seemingly popular notion that treating something with dignity and respect equates to not eating it is something that I find quite bothersome, honestly. There is perhaps no more sacred of an act than something being transformed into the very flesh of one's body. It's an epitome of connection and relatedness - a very literal estis, ergo sum. With disconnection from food production methods, that intimacy has gotten lost in much of my culture. And along with that intimacy, the importance of treating all things we kill to live with respect during their lives. I do not believe this should be about animals at all. To an animist, plants are people too, and there is no "ethical high ground" obtained by not eating animals. There is simply a loss of relationship there, and one that is ultimately unnecessary. I am honored to have Corn Spirit embedded in the carbon isotopes of "my" (is it really?) body, to have Cow Spirit within "my" bones.
I understand your position and I agree with you regarding the impersonality of modern food production methods - however from a biological perspective plants are not "people" but animals
do have brains and consciousness.
So I personally admire people who have the "stomach" - literally - not to eat any living, sentient creature and to live, as far as possible, without harming any within due bounds.
It is an entirely personal decision but I for one have the utmost respect and admiration for veggies/vegans who try to live their lives according to the principle of non-violence.
And I should add that the animal that has been "eaten" and "devoured" may not agree with you regarding the sacredness of the act - though natural on account of the food chain - that led to its painful death, were it able to communicate its suffering in language....
To this end there are sayings attributed to Jesus that circulated among vegetarian, Ebionite circles in Early Christianity and found there way into the Gospel of Thomas which argue that meat-eating - "eating what is dead" and "depending on a body" - is unenlightened:
(11) Jesus said: This heaven will pass away, and the one above it will pass away; and those who are dead are not alive, and those who are living will not die. In the days when you ate of what is dead, you made of it what is living. When you come into the light [of understanding], what will you do?
(87) Jesus said: Wretched is the body which depends on a body, and wretched is the soul which depends on these two.
From a commentary on this by Steven Davies:
https://books.google.co.uk/books?id...NAhWhK8AKHVwCA_wQ6AEIIzAB#v=onepage&q&f=false
"...How does a body depend on a body? By eating it. A human body eats animal bodies for food. Therefore, a soul, we hear, is wretched if it depends on a carnivorous mode of life. This saying does not attack 'the body' itself, only a body that depends on meat for its sustenance. A vegetarian body is not one that depends on a body, so a soul dependent on it would not be wretched.
The Gospel of Thomas contains at least one more saying that also comes from a vegetarian perspective, saying 11(c)...The reference to "when you ate dead things" is to the past and implies a changed present lifestyle wherein the people of the Gospel of Thomas no longer eat dead things. The process of digestion is what "you made them alive" means. Its reference to literal "dead things" consumed in the past contrasts with a future condition when an arrival into light will allow one, metaphorically, to 'eat living things'..."
So it disagrees with the position you express in the above, and many Christians have in turn disagreed with this Thomasine/Ebionite/Nassene position expressed above, which goes to show the difference of personal opinion on this issue.
Each to their own!