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Adam and Eve could have children from the very beginning. Remember in Genesis 1, god told them to be "fruitful and multiply"?
11 And Eve, his wife, heard all these things and was glad, saying: Were it not for our transgression we never should have had seed, and never should have known good and evil, and the joy of our redemption, and the eternal life which God giveth unto all the obedient. (Pearl of Great Price | Moses5:11)
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The Lord gave Adam and Eve four commandments in the Garden of Eden:
1. to multiply and replenish the earth (see Gen. 1:28; Moses 2:28; Abr. 4:28).
2. They were to govern the earth wisely (have dominion over it) (see Moses 2:28; Abr. 4:26).
3. They were not to partake of the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, and if they did they would experience serious consequences (see Gen. 2:17; Moses 3:17; Abr. 5:13).
4.They were to remain with each other (see Gen. 2:24; Moses 3:24; Abr. 5:18).
In the case of two of these commandments—to multiply and replenish the earth and to refrain from partaking of the tree of knowledge of good and evil—Adam and Eve had to choose which they were to obey. Procreation was not possible for them in their immortal state (see 2 Ne. 2:22–25), yet Heavenly Father would not rob them of their agency by making the choice for them. President Joseph Fielding Smith wrote:
“The Lord said to Adam that if he wished to remain as he was in the garden, then he was not to eat the fruit, but if he desired to eat it and partake of death he was at liberty to do so.”19 In essence the Lord told Adam that there were two directions to go, each with its unique consequences—and that Adam was to choose which one.
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it makes sense to me, that bringing a child into the world requires going against their agency - or getting someone into something that they cannot make an infored choice on. (You cannot make an informed choice on something you have never experienced before, spirits cannot make an informed choice about getting a body/coming to Earth, because they had never experienced it before)... only a fallen being who is able to transgress the law of agency can bring a spirit into the world.
Jesus is the "only" begotten - the only one - and a handmaid was required to beget him. That means our Heavenly Parents do not beget children in their perfect form either. (Eve, in her perfect form, did not beget children either, perfect beings cannot beget children).
not to say that it is not needed - begetting children is a beautiful thing, necessary for our progression, but there are sacrifices involved.... the more perfect type of birth is that of the believer's baptism - second birth, one where the person has experience and can make an informed choice about their family and what they want to do.