I have a friend of mine who studies wrongfully convicted people and how they were proven innocent or proven there is a reasonable doubt for conviction and released eventually, but after years and years of imprisonment. The Jury has to be unanimous, or there is a mistrial. Sometimes the majority sways, and sometimes the minority sways, or there is no end to it. The rule of thumb is the accused is innocent until proven guilty, but sometimes in reality he is guilty until proven innocent.
Recently there was a thread about Muhammed and his marriage to Aisha. The thread was claiming that Aisha was not a child at the time of marriage. This thread is not to discuss it's evidences, but something curious that took place. It's nothing new, it's a usual apologetic.
It does not matter if I believe this or that, what matters is there are millions of Muslims believe Muhammed married a child.
It's true in a way that what really matters is what a lot of people believe. That is going to shape society. That's a correct assumption. What society thinks is important, but is it really more important than the truth. In the case of a man on trial, is it really the societies perspective that matters or if he is truly innocent? What matters to you?
Muhammed is dead and gone. So who cares what he did? What matters is what people believe today. Another idea some may pose. Well, that is also true in a way. So bottomline is, if you think Muhammed married a grown up instead, you should not speak the truth. You should not be allowed to. Your speech should be muted. Because what people think is more important.
Or should it be that like many do speak up with enough evidence he did not marry a child based on their same old traditions? Maybe those who believe otherwise will also learn something! Or as these people say., no, no, no, you should shut up because what matters is what a lot of people think?
What is the ought in this conundrum? This can be applied to a lot of things in this world and it's history that might pave way to the future.
What matters the most?
Clearly, what matters to a person most is what they value, which is ultimately their life. In the Titanic case - for many wealthy folk, it seems apparent that it was their wealth that mattered most. Only 'seems' however, because at the time it would've been doubtful whether the ship was going to sink, or not. Titanic was touted as virtually unsinkable, so they would have suspected a false-alarm. Having bundles of moolah and the chance of the rapacious riffraff rioting... what defence to take?
"Conundrum" of what to choose, truth or lie? Only at face value. Frequently with historical retrospectives, the choice of truth and lie seem obvious, just as the case of Titanic, even Aisha. If the wealthy on the Titanic knew what we know now, they'd have fought for the boats, as would the riffraff. None, at the time, knew, until too late.
Therefore, before the categoric states of truth or lie are established, there is a state of flux, aka, change; meaning: a process of change. The question then is: is the lie truth, or is the truth a lie? Aisha and even Covid we must not discuss because their truth, or lie, is in a state of flux. Their truth or lie has not been firmly established, and as you say in a case above: "is it really the societies perspective that matters or if he is truly innocent?"
His truth or innocence 'depends' on the situation at the time, but better to say: the truth or lie was in a state of flux. Sure there's ultimate truth or lie when probably every fact is known, but more often than not, it's in flux. Flux involves possible influences on the understanding of truth or lie at the time of an event. Such a flux confronted some US soldiers in Vietnam who carried out the My Lai Massacre. They had been sniped at constantly and their comrades died and were maimed daily, so they shot up a bunch of villagers; men, women and children. At the time the soldiers felt wronged; abused, murdered, and by whom - by people who looked like the villagers at My Lai. As a villager of My Lai, sure you know the Viet Minh, and they would kill you if you don't feed them, even hide them. Then blat, US soldiers annihilate your family and everyone close to you.
My Lai in a cold court is open and shut. Doesn't matter how wronged you feel, you don't shoot up unarmed civilians. But that incident isn't peculiar to My Lai, it's an age-old problem of soldiering, even of general circumstance. The massacre at My Lai was a tragedy of love and hate, a 'Romeo and Juliet' of war. A flux moment; a moment of change, when truth and lie was blurred. A conundrum? Not-at-all, but again, yet another tragedy of the human condition.
So then, does it matter what people believe, or think, or does truth trump that? Depends, doesn't it... Depends on what you value. If you go along with the herd you may get promoted and liked, regardless of truth. If you don't go with the herd, you may get demoted and disliked, regardless again, of truth. Which would you prefer? That's the tragedy of history, and which with stinted facts of the past, those of today reflect upon, supposing naively, even like those before us, that we of the moment have the truth, and those old farts did not.
As for 'shaping society,' you make it sound almost 'scientifically' possible to shape the world, and many have tried. And, as ever, with the best of intentions, oh yes indeed. Shaping can be done; has been done; is in the process of being done. This world now is a result of shaping, and has it gone wonderfully, and will it end well...