They have something valuable to offer you
So you say, but I never see what that is from them or you. I already mentioned the people who say that they are learning spiritual truths on a spiritual journey, and when I ask them to share a few of these truths, I usually get no response, and when I do, it's meaningless verbiage that doesn't fit my definition of truth or knowledge. And here you are doing something similar. Making vague promises of value in their words. If only I would let them, they would have something valuable to offer. Like what? I've been interacting with these people in this way for over a dozen years on two sites, and I know very well what they have to offer. I have found no value there for me.
You seem to be using yourself as a measuring stick. You found value, so I will to. If I haven't, it can't because you're wrong. It must be because I shut them out.
But I don't shut them out. I reject their conclusions. They don't pass muster. There is nothing there for me. But there was and is for you, so you extrapolate to this being a benefit to everybody.
I've used the analogy of the guy born with blurry vision who one day gets a pair of glasses, sees clearly, and shouts to the world that everybody needs a pair, unaware that there are people who have no such need, unaware that there are people who see clearly without glasses and would actually have their vision degraded by prescription glasses of any prescription. I've worn those glasses. I've spent a decade in Christianity. I know very well what faith has to offer me - a chance to hold false beliefs and make errors looking through those lenses, with no benefit to offset the loss.
On anther recent thread asking ex-Christians why they left Christianity, I answered thusly:
I came to Christianity at about age 20, for about ten years. The religion didn't make sense to me, but I decided to suspend disbelief to give this God a chance to reveal itself to me and for the dogma to begin to make sense. I likened it to trying on a pair of shoes that didn't fit quite right, but if I walked around in them for awhile, the fit would improve.
My first two years as a Christian were when I was far from home in the military in Maryland. The two years in that Maryland congregation were euphoric, and that was enough to convince me that I had been filled with the Holy Spirit as promised. Then I was discharged and returned to California, where I went to about a half dozen congregations there, finding them all lifeless.
Eventually, I realized that what I was interpreting as the Holy Spirit in Maryland was just a psychological state induced by a gifted and charismatic pastor, since that feeling didn't come with me to California. I realized that the religion was not delivering in its promises and was false, so I kicked off that pair of shoes and returned to atheism, where I found better fitting shoes in secular humanism.
There I used the metaphor of ill-fitting shoes instead of glasses, but the message is the same. I'm quite sure that no theist has anything to offer me based in a god belief or any type of unjustified belief (faith). I know this from ten years of Christianity and twelve years of discussion sites like this one. Yet here you are telling me that such people have something of value to tell me.
And this should be apparent to you. Just as you have adopted a faith-based worldview because it obviously meets some need in you not met without it, I have rejected it because it doesn't meet any unfulfilled need. Isn't that obvious? If we're both outside in the chill air, and you put on your coat, but I leave mine wrapped around my waist, isn't it obvious that the coat meets a need you have that I don't have?
you aren't really learning anything about them
That's not correct. I'm not learning anything from them, but I am learning about them. Consider our discussions to date. I don't take your advice or share your conclusions, but I learn just reading how you think. Look at all I've written above that I learned in part in discussion with you.
it appears that you don't care about them
Why would you say that? I don't share their opinions, but I do try to be helpful, as I have with you here, likely with no success.
I have written a few posts to one of our spiritual pilgrims here trying help him see that he has what I consider a wrong idea of what spirituality is, and suggesting that he refocus from gurus and a fruitless search for arcane knowledge through isms to mindful living. I have pointed out to him that he has already tried two different isms in the time I've known him, and that neither gives him comfort or useful insights. I have offered the example of my wife, who goes about here daily life in touch with her feelings and environment. She spends much time in the garden, where she has milkweed to attract butterflies, a fountain to attract songbirds, and hummingbird feeders. She is a woman at peace, the kind of peace I think this poster seeks. I hope I've given him something of value, but I think I've had little success there, either.
it's a very tiresome and blinding bias that you're going to refuse to let go of long enough to actually learn anything different.
So you keep saying, but never offer anything to make me think you might be right. My bias is against faith-based thinking, or unjustified belief, for reasons already given. My bias is to subject all ideas to the methods of critical thinking to justify belief in them before accepting them. Add in a Golden Rule intuition, and my whole worldview follows. Beginning with the epistemology I've just described - my means for deciding what is true about the world (empiricism) - and a desire to see the most people have the most opportunity to pursue happiness as they understand it (utilitarian ethics), my entire world view follows, secular humanism. Those are the shoes I've been walking in for the last several decades, and they fit me well. I have gone farther in them than I did in the shoes I traded away. Being evidence-based is why I reject your contention that there is something of value to me in faith-based thought, why I've rejected all of your claims about what I am missing. There's nothing there but unevidenced claims that I already know to be incorrect empirically - by asking people like you to show me what they're learning that they imply would be of value to me as well.
If you'll recall the spoiler I included in my last post, and it's references to useful knowledge, what I mean by that, and how to obtain it (empirically only), I mentioned the examples of creationism and astrology, two faith-based beliefs that generate no useful knowledge. That is the sine qua non of an incorrect belief. If a position generates no fruit - nothing that can be offered as evidence of its usefulness - it is incorrect. This is why I reject your claims and those of the spiritualists. They have nothing to show for their efforts. You haven't begun to give me a reason to think that there is any value for a secular humanist where you say there is value, or that that evidence-based thinking limits the critical thinker or holds him back. You just keep claiming it without backing it up, and I've learned to avoid going there.
Maybe you can say what it is that your beliefs that I reject do for you, and why you think they would benefit a secular humanist. What does abandoning what you call materialism and scientism and which I call strict empiricism have to offer the secular humanist? And if you have no specific answer that you can support with examples, what does that tell you? Incidentally, this is me trying to help you. If you learned that what gives you comfort or meaning or whatever it is you get out your beliefs is not of value to people that do that without them, you might spend less time being frustrated that your ideas are being rejected. You might understand why that rejection is right for some others.