It would be interesting to know how you think I might act or think in or about various situations.
Just so you have an idea...
Chick-fil-A: If I owned the company, I would not question any potential employee's sexuality. As long as someone could make a sammich, act professionally and not be disruptive to the business, it would not be an issue with me.
If anyone was so "flaming" about their own sexuality -heterosexual or otherwise -or absolutely anything else -including religion -it would be considered disruptive, unprofessional, inappropriate, could be detrimental to productivity, the customer's experience, the goal of selling quality sammiches in a timely manner, etc....
The military: I would not choose to be in the military, because I would not give such personal decision-making power over to who-the-hell-knows -but if we're ever in a war zone, respect the fact that I am not gay, don't get distracted by my cute butt even if you are a hetero woman or other, or accidentally shoot me in it.
Wedding Cake: I'll make you any kind of cake you want and you can eat it, dance around it, worship it, jump on it and squish it, eat it after a wedding -whatever. I don't care. However, I would not make a cake which supported any aspect of anything which I would not want to promote. I'm not going to make a cake which, for example, has a couple of downed towers on it surrounded by celebrating jihadists. Therefore, in such a case, I would make the cake -and you could make the cake support or promote whatever you wanted.
I'm not saying gay marriage is similar -but just to provide an extreme example for clarification.
As that pertains to gay marriage, I do not
personally believe in
promoting it -not because I am against gays who marry or would treat them badly in any way, but because I do not
personally agree with all of the reasoning behind gay marriage -and choose to promote or be directly involved with only that which I believe is in everyone's eternal best interest.
To clarify, I'm not saying that gay people are bad and they are all going to burn in hell for eternity.
I -personally -simply do not agree that all who might be gay and married are simply born that way -or that God intended for people of the same sex to marry.
I -personally -believe that obedience to the will of God is necessary for the ordering of eternity -and that it should supersede any worldly consideration.
I -personally -realize that not everyone sees things the same way, and that I am not responsible for them...
...but I also believe that I should treat everyone with love and respect -because regardless of whether or not people are born one way or another, they are presently one way or another -and if I
were them I would be
exactly like them at any given point.
We are not static -we are all different every day -I am where I am -others are where they are -and that will continue to change.
There is only one overall situation -and we will all eventually align with common truth. We are all born essentially ignorant within a body and situation not of our choosing -and each have to deal with that personally.
Meanwhile, I hope to have a positive effect on as many as possible -regardless of their present state -to help them on their own way -not force any way on them.
Though I would not, for example, put a little plastic model of two married men or women on the cake -or write anything which directly promoted gay marriage, I'd make you the best damned cake you ever looked at or ate.
I'd also say hello if you moved in next door -welcome you to the neighborhood and bring you a housewarming gift -because my consideration of the matter thus far would be limited to what I did or did not put on your cake -not how you lived your own lives.
Some might be offended because I would not put a gay model on top of their cake -but there is nothing I can do about that. If they were against heterosexual marriage or marriage altogether and would not put a model on my cake, I would be quite happy with the cake and not give it another thought.
My focus is not on what is suitable for the present world or time, but on what is suitable for eternal life.
That often has to do with going against that which is natural -or even naturally good or convenient.
I am not against those who do otherwise -but believe it would be to their advantage to do otherwise -and so choose to promote what I believe is in their best interest -while not hindering them in what they believe is in their best interest.
It also has to do with minding my own business and staying out of matters which don't concern me.
If anyone wants rights, respect, acceptance, consideration, kindness, love, etc., -even relating to issues I do not agree with - I wish them every success with the rest of the world -and try to make sure they already have such from me.
If you believe I should act differently -or am treating anyone badly, please explain how.