Sunstone said:
I'm genuinely confused about the religious or spiritual meaning of stigmata. Help!
Padre Pio was a more famous stigmata sufferer and was canonized by the Roman Catholic Church in 2002. Here's an exerpt from Wikipedia:
Invisible Stigmata
On the the 20th of September, 1918, as Pio was kneeling in the chapel of Our Lady of Grace, it is believed that he had a mystic experience. Roughly a month later, he descirbed this experience in a letter to his spiritual advisor, Padre Benedetto from
San Marco in Lamis as follows:
"It all happened in a flash. While all this was taking place, I saw before me a mysterious Person, similar to the one I had seen on August 5th, differing only because His hands, feet and side were dripping blood. The sight of Him frightened me: what I felt at that moment is indescribable. 'I thought I would die, and would have died if the Lord hadn't intervened and strengthened my heart which was about to burst out of my chest. The Person disappeared and I became aware that my hands, feet and side were pierced and were dripping with blood"
[19] and in another of his letters, written in 1911 and addressed to the same person, describing something he had been experiencing for a year, he says,
"Then last night something happened which I can neither explain nor understand. In the middle of the palms of my hands a red mark appeared, about the size of a penny, accompanied by acute pain in the middle of the red marks. The pain was more pronounced in the middle of the left hand, so much so that I can still feet it. Also under my feet I can feel some pain" .
[20]
Replying to a letter from a beloved friend Padre Agostino who had written to him in 1915, asking him specific questions such as when he first experienced visions, whether he had been granted the stigmata, and whether he felt the pains the Passion of Christ, namely the crowning of thorns and the scourging, Padre Pio says that he was favoured with visions since his noviciate peroid (1903 to 1904), that he had been granted the stigmata, but that he was so terrified in the face of this phenomenon that he begged the Lord to withdraw them. He did not wish the pain to be removed, only the visible wounds, since, at the time he considered them to be an indescribable and almost unbearable humiliation.
[21] From then on, it is believed, the visible wounds disappeared, and reappeared only in September 1918. Their pain, however, remained and was felt more acutely on specific days and under certain circumstances. He also said that he was indeed experiencing the pain of the crown of thorns and the scourging. He was not able to clearly indicate the frequency of this experience, but said that he had been suffering from them at least once weekly for some years.
[22]
Padre Pio was also associated with many miracles.......
http://www.padrepio.catholicwebservices.com/ENGLISH/miracles.htm