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What is the most practical way to lessen ones ego and attain enlightenment or awakening?

Subhankar Zac

Hare Krishna,Hare Krishna,
Based on your beliefs, what would you say?

(Except converting to other religions or accepting someone as my savior, all thoughts and views are welcome)
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
The thing is we are already there, or enlightened, its just that we expect it to be hard, or a journey that can take many years, if not many life times if you believe in after life. This idea of enlightenment being something to be obtained is nothing but the ego wanting you to stay ignorant of your true nature.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
The thing is we are already there, or enlightened, its just that we expect it to be hard, or a journey that can take many years, if not many life times if you believe in after life. This idea of enlightenment being something to be obtained is nothing but the ego wanting you to stay ignorant of your true nature.

I'm tilting my head. I don't get the connection. Some people find their true nature by looking forward to what they want to obtain. Others find it present without looking forward and needing to look back. While others look back because it defines their present and their generations of the future.

All of these in one way or another present the true nature of the individual (taking out specific religions that teach "true nature") in his 1. goal, 2. journey, or 3. tradition.

I see them all equally valid. I just put more emphasis on the journey and tradition rather than the goal. How does a person with a goal equal to egotism?
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Based on your beliefs, what would you say?

(Except converting to other religions or accepting someone as my savior, all thoughts and views are welcome)

To understand the workings of the mind since through the mind/thoughts we interpret or define what our hearts and spirits mean and mind/brain gives us interpretations of what our emotions and feelings mean both physical and psychological.

If we learn about our mind first and then our heart, we are on our way to enlightenment. If we start with the heart and then the mind, it's like putting the cart before the horse.
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
I'm tilting my head. I don't get the connection. Some people find their true nature by looking forward to what they want to obtain. Others find it present without looking forward and needing to look back. While others look back because it defines their present and their generations of the future.

All of these in one way or another present the true nature of the individual (taking out specific religions that teach "true nature") in his 1. goal, 2. journey, or 3. tradition.

I see them all equally valid. I just put more emphasis on the journey and tradition rather than the goal. How does a person with a goal equal to egotism?
The ego, or how I use the word, is our conditioning and programming, we are born ego-less, we are then conditioned, this conditioning takes us away from our true SELF, we then believe we must find our true SELF, even though this may help, or seem to help, its not a necessary thing to do, we can do nothing, if we are under grace we will awaken, no matter what we do.
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
Most likely through meditation, I'd think.

The ego rests on the division of the perceptual field into subject and object. Some -- but perhaps not all -- forms of meditation tend to break down that division, thus undermining the ego. Moreover, some -- but perhaps not all -- forms of meditation tend to reveal the ego for what it is, which has its own action or effect of lessening it.

One should be cautious though: To set oneself upon the goal of attaining enlightenment is self-defeating because it is the ego itself that is involved in setting goals. Consequently, such a goal tends to strengthen the ego.
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
I loss you here. Even though [the goal] may help...it isn't a necessary to do. We can [just] do nothing [and it will bring the same results]?
Well as I see it, whatever we do will keep us in ignorance, as I have said, we are already there, why is that so hard to see, its our true SELF, or Being, enlightenment usually happens when one has drooped all that they have learnt about enlightenment, its in that silence that we get the, AH, now I see moment.
 

Treasure Hunter

Well-Known Member
Humble yourself constantly, change your relationship with pain, focus on yourself, sustain mindfulness, build resilience, accept nothing less than perfection
 

YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
I see it more of a fallacy that one has to lessen ones ego in order to discover unknown aspects of the psyche and perceive some notions of "ridding oneself of ego" to be psychologically unsound and in some cases, downright unhealthy. @Sunstone is on the right track though. In meditation, with minimal guidance, one can begin to sense other aspects of the psyche that are outside our normal focus of attention. My advice? Forget about enlightenment and all that you imagine it to be... as its nothing like anything you have imagined. You cannot force the direct experience of subject and object becoming one. Just wait, lose your expectations and get ready to party when it happens...

Well, that's what a passing hummingbird told me...
 
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Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Well as I see it, whatever we do will keep us in ignorance, as I have said, we are already there, why is that so hard to see, its our true SELF, or Being, enlightenment usually happens when one has drooped all that they have learnt about enlightenment, its in that silence that we get the, AH, now I see moment.

There is a Buddhist analogy on this. In the Lotus Sutra, The Buddha (I think I mentioned this in one of my many threads; de ja vu) was talking to, I think Manjushri or Shariputra. His disciple asked him what the meaning of life was (not his wording). The layman behind him and his disciples waited for the answer. Then The Buddha looked at his disciple and his disciple back at him and a silence developed them both. The Buddha said, "now you understand."

I always kept that in mind when I think of enlightenment, god, or however one wants to name it. I don't devalue how people get there whether they look forward to a goal, stay in the present, or find themselves in the past, they are all valid.

The goal (just as any other goal, say for work) gives you a mark of where you would like to be; that doesn't mean many people know they will get there. It's a focal point not a replacement for enlightenment.

The present may seem better than the goal; but, then, I see people walking around in circles or on a ball park like lemmings. Yes, they are present in the moment; and, for some, are walking in a circle. That doesn't devalue or replace their enlightenment. It's alright that they see enlightenment being where they are at the moment no matter where they walk forward or backwards. That doesn't change they are walking in a circle.

The past, tradition, might seem the better route. I mean, think of it. If we have children, we may want to give them knowledge we have. If we come together as a family and pray at the dinner table, that ritual or tradition may be carried to their parents grandchildren later on in life. Even rituals in the Church, being part of the past is like carrying the wisdom and knowledge of one's ancestors--humanity--and when we forget where we come from, we forget who we are. That doesn't mean we replace the past for enlightenment. It just means that our enlightenment is enriched by our origin.

I don't mind not having a goal. I find that a lot easier for me in all aspects of my life. I don't care for walking in a circle. So, I am on a journey not running bases. I love to look back to my past but I don't want to stay there.

All of this is enlightenment: our goals, our journey, our tradition. If we took out these things: future, present, and past, what do you have left?

"Being, enlightenment usually happens when one has drooped all that they have learnt about enlightenment, its in that silence that we get the, AH, now I see moment."​

I call this standing still. It's like a Christian who says they do not do anything for god. God does things for them. The holy spirit will do things within them. They just move in the present letting their true nature/holy spirit work in them.

The Buddha and his disciple had that AH moment. However, it took a lot of practice, discipline, and knowledge to get there. It wasn't just an awareness. He had a goal (relieve himself and others from suffering). He was in the present (in mindfulness and awareness of the nature of life). He was in the past (carrying on traditions of his culture and telling people to carry his teachings after he pass on-as many Buddhist follow).

He never stood still.

:leafwind: I keep telling myself Ima write a book. I get but so far and just stop. :(
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
There is a Buddhist analogy on this. In the Lotus Sutra, The Buddha (I think I mentioned this in one of my many threads; de ja vu) was talking to, I think Manjushri or Shariputra. His disciple asked him what the meaning of life was (not his wording). The layman behind him and his disciples waited for the answer. Then The Buddha looked at his disciple and his disciple back at him and a silence developed them both. The Buddha said, "now you understand."

I always kept that in mind when I think of enlightenment, god, or however one wants to name it. I don't devalue how people get there whether they look forward to a goal, stay in the present, or find themselves in the past, they are all valid.

The goal (just as any other goal, say for work) gives you a mark of where you would like to be; that doesn't mean many people know they will get there. It's a focal point not a replacement for enlightenment.

The present may seem better than the goal; but, then, I see people walking around in circles or on a ball park like lemmings. Yes, they are present in the moment; and, for some, are walking in a circle. That doesn't devalue or replace their enlightenment. It's alright that they see enlightenment being where they are at the moment no matter where they walk forward or backwards. That doesn't change they are walking in a circle.

The past, tradition, might seem the better route. I mean, think of it. If we have children, we may want to give them knowledge we have. If we come together as a family and pray at the dinner table, that ritual or tradition may be carried to their parents grandchildren later on in life. Even rituals in the Church, being part of the past is like carrying the wisdom and knowledge of one's ancestors--humanity--and when we forget where we come from, we forget who we are. That doesn't mean we replace the past for enlightenment. It just means that our enlightenment is enriched by our origin.

I don't mind not having a goal. I find that a lot easier for me in all aspects of my life. I don't care for walking in a circle. So, I am on a journey not running bases. I love to look back to my past but I don't want to stay there.

All of this is enlightenment: our goals, our journey, our tradition. If we took out these things: future, present, and past, what do you have left?

"Being, enlightenment usually happens when one has drooped all that they have learnt about enlightenment, its in that silence that we get the, AH, now I see moment."​

I call this standing still. It's like a Christian who says they do not do anything for god. God does things for them. The holy spirit will do things within them. They just move in the present letting their true nature/holy spirit work in them.

The Buddha and his disciple had that AH moment. However, it took a lot of practice, discipline, and knowledge to get there. It wasn't just an awareness. He had a goal (relieve himself and others from suffering). He was in the present (in mindfulness and awareness of the nature of life). He was in the past (carrying on traditions of his culture and telling people to carry his teachings after he pass on-as many Buddhist follow).

He never stood still.

:leafwind: I keep telling myself Ima write a book. I get but so far and just stop. :(
That's a lot of words to describe the simple, but that's your way, and I have mine, I have had the so called experience of what is called enlightenment, and I can only speak from that experience. The Buddha had his experience and he also has his way of sharing his experience, the Buddha isn't more enlightened than anyone else, as I keep saying we are already there, we are already that which IS.
I am not degrading anyone's way of trying to become enlightened, I am only saying we don't have to do all that, its up to you if you want to keep on a path, in fact we have no choice but to do what we do, but ask, who is the one who has the choice ?.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
That's a lot of words to describe the simple, but that's your way, and I have mine, I have had the so called experience of what is called enlightenment, and I can only speak from that experience. The Buddha had his experience and he also has his way of sharing his experience, the Buddha isn't more enlightened than anyone else, as I keep saying we are already there, we are already that which IS.
I am not degrading anyone's way of trying to become enlightened, I am only saying we don't have to do all that, its up to you if you want to keep on a path, in fact we have no choice but to do what we do, but ask, who is the one who has the choice ?.

Yeah. I tend to go around the bush to make my point. At least you got it.

What I'm really saying is the goal, journey, and tradition are the enlightenment. They aren't stepping stones (or how you said long ago-um--supports until one finds their way to drop everything). These things Are the people who believe in them.

While enlightenment is with you without all extra things. Enlightenment is in Christian Joe, Buddhist Jane, and Vodouist Bob in their future, present, and past traditions. They aren't stepping stones nor replacements.

I guess everyone has their way of recognizing that they already have enlightenment. Not everyone who knows they already have it lives it without their practice or belief.
 

Subhankar Zac

Hare Krishna,Hare Krishna,
There is a Buddhist analogy on this. In the Lotus Sutra, The Buddha (I think I mentioned this in one of my many threads; de ja vu) was talking to, I think Manjushri or Shariputra. His disciple asked him what the meaning of life was (not his wording). The layman behind him and his disciples waited for the answer. Then The Buddha looked at his disciple and his disciple back at him and a silence developed them both. The Buddha said, "now you understand."

I always kept that in mind when I think of enlightenment, god, or however one wants to name it. I don't devalue how people get there whether they look forward to a goal, stay in the present, or find themselves in the past, they are all valid.

The goal (just as any other goal, say for work) gives you a mark of where you would like to be; that doesn't mean many people know they will get there. It's a focal point not a replacement for enlightenment.

The present may seem better than the goal; but, then, I see people walking around in circles or on a ball park like lemmings. Yes, they are present in the moment; and, for some, are walking in a circle. That doesn't devalue or replace their enlightenment. It's alright that they see enlightenment being where they are at the moment no matter where they walk forward or backwards. That doesn't change they are walking in a circle.

The past, tradition, might seem the better route. I mean, think of it. If we have children, we may want to give them knowledge we have. If we come together as a family and pray at the dinner table, that ritual or tradition may be carried to their parents grandchildren later on in life. Even rituals in the Church, being part of the past is like carrying the wisdom and knowledge of one's ancestors--humanity--and when we forget where we come from, we forget who we are. That doesn't mean we replace the past for enlightenment. It just means that our enlightenment is enriched by our origin.

I don't mind not having a goal. I find that a lot easier for me in all aspects of my life. I don't care for walking in a circle. So, I am on a journey not running bases. I love to look back to my past but I don't want to stay there.

All of this is enlightenment: our goals, our journey, our tradition. If we took out these things: future, present, and past, what do you have left?

"Being, enlightenment usually happens when one has drooped all that they have learnt about enlightenment, its in that silence that we get the, AH, now I see moment."​

I call this standing still. It's like a Christian who says they do not do anything for god. God does things for them. The holy spirit will do things within them. They just move in the present letting their true nature/holy spirit work in them.

The Buddha and his disciple had that AH moment. However, it took a lot of practice, discipline, and knowledge to get there. It wasn't just an awareness. He had a goal (relieve himself and others from suffering). He was in the present (in mindfulness and awareness of the nature of life). He was in the past (carrying on traditions of his culture and telling people to carry his teachings after he pass on-as many Buddhist follow).

He never stood still.

:leafwind: I keep telling myself Ima write a book. I get but so far and just stop. :(


Buddhist ways are more practical. But it's a long process.
:)
 
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