What is your age limit for partners?

[StarryNightshade]

Just wondering, what is the oldest in which you would prefer your partner to be?

For me, I can easily see myself being with someone twice my age. In fact, when my current partner and I breifly broke up, I was talking with a guy who was almost 50. I like maturity and it was refreshing to have a conversation with a gay man which didn't involve stereotypical subjects like sex and...I guess that's about it.

 

[illykitty]

I don't think I could go over 10 years... It's just a matter of principle for me. I don't want to be with someone who could be my father. *Shivers* Yes it's the yuck factor but hey at least I'm honest about it!

My husband is 4 years older, fyi.

 

[Caladan]

Just wondering, what is the oldest in which you would prefer your partner to be?

For me, I can easily see myself being with someone twice my age. In fact, when my current partner and I breifly broke up, I was talking with a guy who was almost 50. I like maturity and it was refreshing to have a conversation with a gay man which didn't involve stereotypical subjects like sex and...I guess that's about it.

I typically been with women a few years older, 3-5 years older. My wife is 7 years older than me. I prefer women who are several years older, I guess my limit for entering a relationship would be a decade older, but that doesn't mean I don't find women who are older than me in 2 decades attractive or romantically interesting.
In general I find women who are several years older than my age to be more sexy, to radiate more femininity, maturity, to be much more focused on their goals, to have a more stable life, to have more channels of communications with me, and to be able to have better conversations in general.

 

[StarryNightshade]

*Shivers* Yes it's the yuck factor but hey at least I'm honest about it!

And honesty is always great. While I like older men, realistically I would probably be in a long term relationship with someone no older than 10 years. That is, if I wasn't already in one.

 

[Poeticus]

Namaste,

I like older women.

M.V.

: hamster :: hamster :: hamster :: hamster :: hamster :: hamster :: hamster :

 

[Shadow Wolf]

I'm far more reserved about how young than how old. Anymore than a few years younger than me is a turn off (I am 26), but twice my age really wouldn't be too much of an issue,

 

[Gjallarhorn]

Considering I'm only US drinking age, high is more open than low. Though maybe a good 6 years on either end is a good limit.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I've always tended to date people near my age, and if I found myself single again, I suspect this would still be the case, although "near my age" might have expanded a bit since college. At 39, I doubt I'd date a woman older than 42, but might date somebody as young as 32 - so I probably have a slight preference on the younger side. Also, if I was planning on a long-term relationship which involved children, then I would definitely look for someone on the younger end of my range.

 

[yoda89]

Someone around my age. 22 being the lowest. 27 being the highest

 

[Skwim]

How much money does she have?

 

[Me Myself]

Romantic relationship I would prefer a maximum of 5 years older than me, and would prefer her to be around my age or a bit younger, but as long as she is not beyind 5 years older her personality looks and maturity will matter to me and the age just wouldnt.

 

[Fireside_Hindu]

This might be a moot point since I'm married but when I was dating I stayed away from men who were younger then me by more then two years. However, I have been attracted to men who were well into their 40s (I'm 27). But for dating purposes, 10 year older would be my limit I think.

:camp:

 

[ElizabethGould]

I'm into older guys...most of the men I'm drawn to are in their 50s.

 

[Poeticus]

I'm into older guys...most of the men I'm drawn to are in their 50s.

Namaste,

The females that have responded have said that they like older men; and the guys that have responded have said that they like older women.

Intriguing......

M.V.

 

[bobhikes]

If I ever get another partner she will have to enjoy sex, crave sex and want to have fun sex with me doesn't matter what age she is.

 

[Sunstone]

If I ever start dating again, I'm going for whom I compatible with and damn their age. At 56, I'm just too old to consider someone I'm incompatible with -- although I had a knack for doing so when I was younger.

 

[Treks]

I definitely prefer older men. My husband is 22 years older than me. When we got together I was 22 and he was 44. That was 7 years ago. This Friday is our 5 year wedding anniversary, awe <3

I don't go for guys my own age, I think it's a trust issue (no offence, it's me not you).

However, I don't want to have children... If I did I'd probably select a younger partner.

 

[Poeticus]

I don't go for guys my own age, I think it's a trust issue (no offence, it's me not you).

Namaste,

1. Happy early-Anniversary, Treks-ji!!

2. Read post #14; you give no offense....

M.V.

 

[Monotheist 101]

n + 12 = limit.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Namaste,

The females that have responded have said that they like older men; and the guys that have responded have said that they like older women.

Intriguing......

M.V.

She's in her 60's and doesn't look bad at all.