Not really, but I guess that's subject to interpretation. I simply would like to be able to refuse participating in things that go against my beliefs without being tagged as racist/homophobic which, by the way, I don't think I am.
Let me explain with a simple example. If I had a restaurant and gay people came over for a meal and a coffee I would serve them happily and would see them just like any other customer. Having a meal is something normal for everyone, humans need to eat and there's no connection between eating and sexual orientation. If the same gay people asked me to host their wedding in my restaurant I would say no. Why? because that would be a celebration directly connected to a lifestyle I don't agree with and I should not be forced to have an active participation in such event. Would that make me lose business? Probably, but I would still like to have the choice.