I was 12 when I began my first "real" job where I was paid wages. I was the neighborhood babysitter. And I was darn good at it, too.
There was one particular family, though, that stood out in my mind that had five kids, and I was asked to watch over them until the wee hours of the morning. They were quite the
challenging bunch, to say the least. First of all, I went against the wishes of the parents when they told me to leave the baby alone in the crib when I knew he needed his diaper changed............I didn't think that was such a big deal, though.
My older brother stopped by after he got off work to check up on me (he knew this family was difficult, even for me). And one of the older girls tried to spike his Coca-Cola with nail polish remover.
My hair was yanked often, I'd get painted on, colored on, pushed and pulled, and the kids never followed the house rules. It was no wonder why the parents wanted a break from the chaos.
I stopped babysitting for them when one of the kids willingly set fire to their own house. I draw the line on arson.
But at that time, I'd already begun to phase in to being a teaching assistant around 17, and by 19 years old, I was teaching my own dance classes. I'd still babysit every now and then, but that was only if I wasn't in a show, teaching, or clumsily waiting tables at a local restaraunt...........I totally sucked as a waitress.
But, I still think I had a good thing going in my teen years. I could earn a couple hundred dollars a month, and in those days as a 15-year-old, that was a lot of money.
I would laugh and comment sometimes in my dance career that I was making more money as the neighborhood babysitter than as a professional dancer. Well, at least now I'm getting call after call for work now that my foot is in the door and my name is recognized by the locals. I can demand better pay now, but WOW ten years ago I would be doing so many jobs
pro bono that I felt like I was in a never-ending internship.
Peace,
Mystic